How many Extended Families say, "My Step Child Is
A Brat!" ? Why is it always easier to blame the Child? Ask
yourself, "What is your Step Child exposed to"? How do
you and your Spouse relate to each other? As Parent's are you
both on the same page and do you support each other as a team? Do
you both show respect for each other and have good communication
skills? Is the Child rewarded for good behavior as well as having
the Child take responsibility for his bad behavior? Is there a
follow through? Do you speak to the Child in an non angry tone or
insult him or her? Do you get frustrated with your Step Child
because of the behavior of the biological Parent? Do you truly know
what your Step Child is feeling and why they are reacting the way
they are, or is it just easier to get angry? Did you know a Child
no matter what age can feel how you think about them without ever
saying a word? Than at times what the Child is feeling can be so
far off the mark that it can crush them emotionally without them
even realizing it? Do you ever take the time to speak to the
biological Parent with your concerns? Do you feel that you are
being ignored by the biological Parent but yet they place you in
the firing line of the Child's abuse and they themselves ignore
the problem? Are you now a Babysitter as a Step Parent with less
rights than a Babysitter? Have you become the door mat of convince
for both of the biological Parent's of your Step Child? Is the
behavior of your Step Child now influencing the other Children in
your household?
If you answered YES to any of these questions, now ask your
self.."Why is my Step Child such A Brat?"
To the Biological Parent I say, "The lack of Effort Will
Always Result In Your Families Failure As A Strong Family
Unit."
To The Step Parent I say, "God, grant me the serenity to
accept the things I cannot change. Courage to change the things I
can. And the wisdom to know the difference. And then help me decide
the things I can and can not live with as my own free
will."
Why Is My Step Child A Brat!
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