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Friday, December 4, 2009

Woman arrested for breastfeeding baby while drunk, charged with child abuse and neglect

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While we continue to chat about the medical pros and cons of drinking while pregnant, most moms seem to be more resolute in the decision to not breastfeed after they've been drinking tons of alcohol.

Stacey Anvarinia from Grand Forks, North Dakota was arrested in February and charged with child abuse and neglect for breastfeeding her baby in front of police officers while "extremely intoxicated."

Officers were called to Anvarinia's home to investigate a domestic disturbance. While police were there, she started nursing her infant. According to the police report, they told her that breastfeeding while drunk is not good for her baby. Medical studies have reported that "breastfed babies of women who alcoholic beverages on a daily basis are slower in acquiring motor skills (such as crawling and walking) than babies who had not been exposed to alcohol."

First, let's differentiate between drinking a few glasses of wine and then breastfeeding versus being blitzed while breastfeeding.

The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that breastfeeding moms "avoid the use of alcoholic beverages" since the alcohol gets directly into the breastmilk. The AAP also says that moms should wait at least two hours before breastfeeding after having drinks with alcohol. Dr. Jack Newman, a member of the La Leche League's Health Advisory Council has said, "Reasonable alcohol intake should not be discouraged at all."

Last month, a four-month-old baby boy in Russia died, apparently after being breastfed by his drunk mom. The mom had a severe alcohol problem and breastfed the baby several times after drinking drank half a liter of pure alcohol mixed with water. The mom was charged with involuntary manslaughter.

But breastfeeding while drunk? A different story altogether. A mom would end up having to "pump and dump" many times before the alcohol has left her bloodstream.

What's your take on drinking alcohol while breastfeeding a baby? Is it a form of child abuse/neglect?
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  • opiniononly's Avatar
    Posted by opiniononly Wed Apr 29, 2009 12:16pm PDT

    And wouldn't be interesting if this mother was investigated by her hospital prior to discharge for concern about her lack appropriate parenting abilities? This ties in so closely to the other Shine blog about the mother in Washington DC. Sometimes the potential for child abuse actually can be detected while still in the hospital with your newborn.

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  • mommaofsun's Avatar
    Posted by mommaofsun Wed Apr 29, 2009 12:16pm PDT

    Wow. All i can say is I never did, for fear of hurting my kids. And yes, I do feel it is child abuse/neglect.

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  • sassycyra's Avatar
    Posted by sassycyra Wed Apr 29, 2009 12:36pm PDT

    she's an idiot. too bad we can't castrate people like her before they reproduce, but now it's too late. that poor child!

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  • Anna D's Avatar
    Posted by Anna D Wed Apr 29, 2009 12:43pm PDT

    Wow umm I never did that at all I waited untill my daughter was done brestfeeding untill I had a drink at all just because of that reason!!! Wow some ppl should not be aloud to have kids at all!!!

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  • None's Avatar
    Posted by None Wed Apr 29, 2009 2:00pm PDT

    Ok, is it so hard to freakin eat right for 9 months?! I honestly believe if you are pregnant, you should withhold from sex, alcohol, smoking, junk food, etc, the baby is taking all this in!! Don't you want it to be healthy? Sheesh, if you are going to be selfish, don't have one in the 1st place.

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  • Certponte3's Avatar
    Posted by Certponte3 Wed Apr 29, 2009 2:03pm PDT

    Great post! I can remember maybe 3 times where i really wanted to go out and drink (for a social adult social evening-while i was breastfeeding) and I would pump and dump for at least 24 hours before letting my sons latch on and breastfeed. I would pump before and use that as a sumpliment. I actually would test taste it to make sure it taste the same as the pre drinking milk... I cant imagine though being drunk at the time and being able to HOLD the baby in a position to breastfeed! Breastfeeding is kinda ackward anyways and if i was drunk i personally wouldnt be cordinated enough. Drunk and breaskfeeding is child abuse.

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  • Devyn B's Avatar
    Posted by Devyn B Wed Apr 29, 2009 2:55pm PDT

    A couple glasses of wine is one thing but blitzed is a whole other thing

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  • MrsKlingonPasadena's Avatar
    Posted by MrsKlingonPasadena Wed Apr 29, 2009 3:11pm PDT

    It is too crazy to be fiction! Wow, how could any woman do that.

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  • Doktor Eevol's Avatar
    Posted by Doktor Eevol Wed Apr 29, 2009 3:27pm PDT

    Why do the bloggers on Shine consistently point out the rare, worst case scenario mothers and then try to make it into an issue about all of us? I wonder if we'll ever see any positive blog posts about women who do GREAT things, instead of pointing out the worst specimens of humanity all the time?

    And technically getting drunk and breastfeeding your baby is obviously child ABUSE not neglect. Neglect would be to simply allow your child to drink out of a container with an alcoholic substance in it while not stopping them, breastfeeding while drunk actually puts the container (in this case, the boob) into the child's mouth. So no, it's not neglect. But it is ABUSE.

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  • Constance's Avatar
    Posted by Constance Wed Apr 29, 2009 3:31pm PDT

    Feeding an infant alcohol is child abuse. Since the alcohol a woman is drinking "goes directly into the breast milk", then a woman breastfeeding while drinking (whether it was a glass full or a barrel full) should be treated exactly the same as the kind of trash that puts alcohol in baby bottles. It's the SAME THING.

    If you're such an alcoholic that you can't abstain (or plan ahead like Certponte3)for a few lousy little months for the sake of your infant's health, then don't act shocked when people criticize your parenting abilities.

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