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Saturday, November 7, 2009

10 Biggest Myths About Sex

So came across this article..."10 biggest myths about sex".  Some of this is definitely rings true while others are a complete crock of s--- in my opinion (I guess everyone is different). Listed below is my analysis of the ones I am able to comment on.  The rest you can read here



2. Men think about sex every seven seconds. As it turns out, this is fiction, too. According to a 1994 "Sex in America" survey, 54 percent of men think about sex every day or several times a day, 43 percent think about it a few times a week or month, and 4 percent think about it less than once a month.

My View: I definitely fall into that "54%" category and can't see how less than half of other men.  4% actually think about it less than once a month??? Come on.

3. Women are naturally more monogamous than men. Although it's difficult to prove or disprove, researchers believe this popular assumption is more a matter of perception and socialization than biology. As they point out, in most mammalian species, both the males and females are highly, and equally, promiscuous.

My View: Agree! Guys get a lot of s--- for this, but females are just as guilty of committing this act.  I think the reason that people think guys cheat more is because that they A) Get caught more often B) Relationships tend to end more when a guy cheats than when a girl cheats.

4. Pornography is an addictive substance. Some people view porn as a harmless pastime, while others see it as a health hazard. Either way, most scientists agree that although it's possible to become addicted to pornography, the addiction is behavioral, much like an addiction to gambling. Porn itself is not an addictive substance in the category of heroin or cocaine.

My View: Guess I can't argue with this.  I don't know any porn addicts (admitted ones anyway), but I can definitely see this to be true.

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Women can't get pregnant during their period. Couples who believe this myth may be in for a big surprise. According to a 2000 study conducted by the National Institute of Environmental Sciences, at least 2 percent of women enter their fertile period only 4 days into their menstrual cycle, and 17 percent enter it by the seventh day. Sperm can live for up to five days, so this myth has likely resulted in many unplanned pregnancies.

My View: True.  I wish my friend knew this fact before he knocked up his girlfriend.


8. Sex the night before an athletic event will ruin your performance. Although some coaches and athletes advocate abstinence the night before competitions, scientists are quick to point out that there's no evidence to support this myth. In fact, 2000 study published in the Journal of Sports Medicine and Physical Fitness reported that sex had "no detrimental influence on the maximal workload achieved or on the athletes' mental concentration."

My View: My high school coach DRILLED this into our heads.  While there is no scientific evidence, I believe this to be true.  Maybe it's psychosomatic, but I don't perform nearly as well in any sport the day after sex.

9. Talking to kids about sex will encourage them to have sex. It might be uncomfortable or a little embarrassing, but talking to children about sex doesn't encourage them to have it. According to the American Academy of Child Adolescent Psychiatry, open communication helps kids to make healthy and appropriate decisions regarding their sexual behavior.

My View: The myth is false and Quality Health's viewpoint is true.  If you do not talk about it openly, it becomes more "taboo". Therefore a lack of communication will probably increase the likelihood of children having sex.

10. Men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way. A study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships found that men and women can indeed have platonic relationships. The researchers, who tracked 20 pairs of friends, confirmed that "friendship attraction"--a connection devoid of lust--between the genders is a bona-fide bond.

  My View: Not entirely true, not entirely false.  I think it varies on the person.  I know this definitely was true between me and a couple of friends, but also wasn't the case for every female friend I've had.

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Wed Oct 15, 2008 2:39pm PDT

    That's a good blog. There ARE alot of myths about sex and good thing I know most of them. Most of it is common sense anyway. But, as a friend of mine always says, "sense isn't always common". I was lucky. I came from a family who talked about everything, and we never got any misinformation. Kids who never had parents that would talk to them almost always get into more trouble because they have MORE MISINFORMATION from kids at school, and other unreliable sources. I hope more people read this. They need to get real!!!

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    Posted by Big T Wed Oct 15, 2008 2:48pm PDT

    I agree 100%. If you're a parent, the only way to know for sure if your kids are being taught about sex properly is by teaching them yourself. I hate when people say that "sex ed" shouldn't exist or that kids should not be taught about sex. Without getting too political, Palin wants to get rid of sex education and teach "abstinence education". All that does is make sex more taboo and will make kids want to have sex at a younger age.

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  • Jodian's Avatar
    Posted by Jodian Wed Dec 10, 2008 7:51am PST

    Talking to kids abou sex dont encourage them to have sex it only broaden their horizons in knowing what to do and not to do.... after a certain age they will want to try it whether because pf curiuosiuty or peer pressure and when they do they will know how to take care of themselves, what to expect and what not to expect.... talking to kids about sex is good thing it will reduce he amount of infections and diseases rate in this world... take it from a teenager

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  • Dori's Avatar
    Posted by Dori Fri Mar 20, 2009 4:49pm PDT

    I'm a senior citizen & have a different point of view. As you get older, there is more to life than sex. Friendship; being able to communicate; compromising; laughing; just touching, like holding hands; looking each other in the eye; sharing good & bad times; dinner together; even feeding each other; walking with out talking; dreaming & living. There is more, but not now, you need to be together before sex enters the picture, if ever. Health problems & medications can put sex on hold, if not stop it all together. Somebody without a partner or the wrong partner. There is so much to life. Love one another.

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  • Travis's Avatar
    Posted by Travis Fri Mar 20, 2009 4:51pm PDT

    Ya and also kids tend to try to rebel and do things they should not do (i.e. sex, drugs, and alcohol). so if you teach them right then they will be safe. it is impossible to stop all teenagers from having sex, so at least make sure they are safe doing it. and if you want something done right, you have to do it yourself, and teach kids yourself.

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  • Blerk's Avatar
    Posted by Blerk Fri Mar 20, 2009 4:55pm PDT

    Sex used to be a dangerous activity. Now it's recreational activity until you get married. Then you take up badminton to keep from being bored. Only if your spouse has an intellect is a happy future possible. The sex evaporates. Trust me.

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  • Harry's Avatar
    Posted by Harry Fri Mar 20, 2009 5:13pm PDT

    sex whats that with type two dietbetas it went out the window. with all of the happy pills you see on T.V.that are not that reliable I only dream about it. So what was that about its more then sex put your self in my shoes!!!!!!!!

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  • Xu's Avatar
    Posted by Xu Fri Mar 20, 2009 5:17pm PDT

    Well, it's too far for me, but i still consider that there are a lot of things that seem more important than sex.

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  • Daisy's Avatar
    Posted by Daisy Fri Mar 20, 2009 5:28pm PDT

    This stupid article is missing #1, #5 & #6?? Do they proof read this stuff?? They need to change the title to 7 instead of 10!!

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    Posted by Darleen Fri Mar 20, 2009 5:44pm PDT

    You think you have heard it all. But what about the husband with a friend and the wife with her friend and they allow each other the freedom to pursue this "other relationship". Its not cheating because they know about each others activities. What do you think, is it an open relationship? Not only that the four people get together for social occasions? Are there more of these relationships going on to save long marriages??

    DJ

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