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Monday, December 7, 2009

10 Biggest Myths About Sex

So came across this article..."10 biggest myths about sex".  Some of this is definitely rings true while others are a complete crock of s--- in my opinion (I guess everyone is different). Listed below is my analysis of the ones I am able to comment on.  The rest you can read here



2. Men think about sex every seven seconds. As it turns out, this is fiction, too. According to a 1994 "Sex in America" survey, 54 percent of men think about sex every day or several times a day, 43 percent think about it a few times a week or month, and 4 percent think about it less than once a month.

My View: I definitely fall into that "54%" category and can't see how less than half of other men.  4% actually think about it less than once a month??? Come on.

3. Women are naturally more monogamous than men. Although it's difficult to prove or disprove, researchers believe this popular assumption is more a matter of perception and socialization than biology. As they point out, in most mammalian species, both the males and females are highly, and equally, promiscuous.

My View: Agree! Guys get a lot of s--- for this, but females are just as guilty of committing this act.  I think the reason that people think guys cheat more is because that they A) Get caught more often B) Relationships tend to end more when a guy cheats than when a girl cheats.

4. Pornography is an addictive substance. Some people view porn as a harmless pastime, while others see it as a health hazard. Either way, most scientists agree that although it's possible to become addicted to pornography, the addiction is behavioral, much like an addiction to gambling. Porn itself is not an addictive substance in the category of heroin or cocaine.

My View: Guess I can't argue with this.  I don't know any porn addicts (admitted ones anyway), but I can definitely see this to be true.

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Women can't get pregnant during their period. Couples who believe this myth may be in for a big surprise. According to a 2000 study conducted by the National Institute of Environmental Sciences, at least 2 percent of women enter their fertile period only 4 days into their menstrual cycle, and 17 percent enter it by the seventh day. Sperm can live for up to five days, so this myth has likely resulted in many unplanned pregnancies.

My View: True.  I wish my friend knew this fact before he knocked up his girlfriend.


8. Sex the night before an athletic event will ruin your performance. Although some coaches and athletes advocate abstinence the night before competitions, scientists are quick to point out that there's no evidence to support this myth. In fact, 2000 study published in the Journal of Sports Medicine and Physical Fitness reported that sex had "no detrimental influence on the maximal workload achieved or on the athletes' mental concentration."

My View: My high school coach DRILLED this into our heads.  While there is no scientific evidence, I believe this to be true.  Maybe it's psychosomatic, but I don't perform nearly as well in any sport the day after sex.

9. Talking to kids about sex will encourage them to have sex. It might be uncomfortable or a little embarrassing, but talking to children about sex doesn't encourage them to have it. According to the American Academy of Child Adolescent Psychiatry, open communication helps kids to make healthy and appropriate decisions regarding their sexual behavior.

My View: The myth is false and Quality Health's viewpoint is true.  If you do not talk about it openly, it becomes more "taboo". Therefore a lack of communication will probably increase the likelihood of children having sex.

10. Men and women can't be friends because the sex part always gets in the way. A study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relationships found that men and women can indeed have platonic relationships. The researchers, who tracked 20 pairs of friends, confirmed that "friendship attraction"--a connection devoid of lust--between the genders is a bona-fide bond.

  My View: Not entirely true, not entirely false.  I think it varies on the person.  I know this definitely was true between me and a couple of friends, but also wasn't the case for every female friend I've had.

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    Posted by MichaelM Sat Mar 21, 2009 8:10am PDT

    There is so much demand on sex and so much emphasis on this topic because of what the other person said......... SEX BEFORE MARRAIGE!!!! Sex is not a hobby its not something u practice to get good at b4 u get married!!!!! Sex education is so vital because what we as parents wont teach our children the streets will!!!!! We are all sexed out by the time we get married and now its boring cuz we are stuck with one person. If we perserve ourselves until marraige..... (which i know it sounds corny, but only to the world)... then sex after marraige wont be a chore and boring!!!!! The urge to cheat would be absent. Not totally done away with but absent in many cases. U can either do it Gods way and be happy or do it the devils way and reap the consequences. Sex dominates the world so therefore we feel this is what we are suppose to do when dating or even flings! Sad but true.... once upon a time I was guilty of this same thing!!!!!

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