- WEIRD UNNECESSARILY LONG OR FREQUENT STARE
So now this guy is sitting with his friends and Ashley looks up to see if he's still hawking me. "Yeah girl, he's still looking at you." she says. We all laugh about it because it was so obvious. Even in movies when a guy is checking a girl out at the bar, he makes it obvious to her that he is interested in by connecting with her eyes, right? If she smiles and eyes you back you know that she is interested. Most times a guy will approach her. CLEARLY this was not the case that night. This guy seemingly made several attempts to get me to notice him.
http://www.ehow.com/how_4130_survive-bar-scene.html
HINT 1
At this point guys, take the hint that she isn't interested EVEN if you got up from your table three times to make sure she notices you. Of course, someone is going to notice a person walking in front of their table in a tight, crowded restaurant. That doesn't mean I'm interested. It just means that I acknowledge the fact that you passed our table that many times to get me to give you attention. Huge fail.
HINT 2
In this case if she doesn't eye you back or you don't have enough guts to approach her, STOP the weird staring for the next two hours. She is NOT interested. Get over it and move on.
- WHISPER SLY COMMENTS FROM BEHIND
Of course, I'm nonetheless humored but disgusted on some level. Disgusted because it's such a punk move to say something in passing, especially a statement that bold, on a daily basis. Maybe it's just me. Do some of you guys do that? What does it accomplish? Why not approach with how you feel about this person face-to-face instead of in passing?
SOLUTION
Say how you feel to my face. Although, I probably will decline your invitation to call you. Atleast you voiced your feelings like an adult instead of a 4th grade kid.
