4 questions to never ask your guy

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  Posted by Theresa Tue Dec 9, 2008 8:04am PST

  whoa ho ho. Good article.

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  Posted by Me Tue Dec 9, 2008 8:57am PST

  1. "Am I better-looking/smarter/etc. than your ex?"

  I don't need to ask. I have seen a photo of her and I am no beauty queen, but a huge imprevment over her.

  2. "Do you love me?"

  I sometimes ask in a joking way, but he genuinely tells me every days that he loves me. And better till He shows it.

  3. "Can you lend me some money?"

  DUH! I can look after myself thank you. Sure a few quid here and there goes both ways really but I pay for my stuff end of story.

  4. "Are you cheating on me?"

  I have told him hat the boundaries are and what would happen if he crossed them. From that point onward I trusted him. Besdies he's been at the receiving end of it and he knows how much it hurts.

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  Posted by CherryM Tue Dec 9, 2008 9:13am PST

  i still love my ex even know im haveing a baby and he left but deep down inside i love him so much and i understand evre yhing that is said

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  Posted by Janet Tue Dec 9, 2008 10:09am PST

  that is so true never ask your boyfriend questions that you would not want to be asked yourself or youll make him uncomfortable!

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  Posted by Phoenix Tue Dec 9, 2008 1:15pm PST

  Although I really loved this article, I can't agree with the last one. Sometimes, asking point-blank about a suspicion you've been harboring is the only way to get it out in the open. If you're wrong, and you don't ask, you'll be thinking about it forever. If you're right, and you don't ask, things may end up being more drawn-out and painful than they have to be. Either way, right or wrong, it's the only way to open up the lines of communication, which we all know is the key to a lasting relationship.

  Peace.

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  Posted by MISS NEDRA Tue Dec 9, 2008 1:38pm PST

  HAHAHAHAHAHAHA TRU TRU BUT WHY NOT ASK...... SOME THINGS YOU JUST NEED TO KNOW

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  Posted by Paige Tue Dec 9, 2008 2:03pm PST

  5. how many people have you slept with? Who wants to answer that??? That should definitely be added to the list.

  And I think during this economic hard times I should sleep with my bank teller.

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  Posted by WildChild13 Tue Dec 9, 2008 5:31pm PST

  paigeerd i thnk your worng. me and ANY of my boyfriends have never had a problem with that.

  just wanna make sure the person i am into is clean. i also ask if they have been tested, etc.

  i think its important.

  unless your a little man w---- then af course you dont wanna answer that.

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  Posted by vixenvena Tue Dec 9, 2008 7:55pm PST

  What about:

  1. Darling, is there anyway you can increase your penis size?

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  Posted by Wed Dec 10, 2008 6:02am PST

  Vixenvena....that's #1 or should be! The four she mentioned shouldn't matter if you two are already married. I agree if you just dating as gf/bf. I have borrowed money from a boyfriend, I have told him I love him if I did, neither my first or my second husband had an x and my third I never compaired the two of us....because she was way younger when I finally did marry him. Although she was actually a beautiful lady and I told him so. I think it's every womens right to ask if they think their man is cheating on them whether they are married or not. So, I think the only real thing you should NEVER say is something about their manhood!

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