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Monday, November 30, 2009

4 reasons woman go out with older men.

Today we see not only celebreties go out with older men, we see it very often wether its at a local grocery store, to hot new club at the mall.  We see this weird and sometimes we also find it disgusting.  Why are these girls going out with those "older" guys.  Its a proven fact that women are nearly 10 years wiser than a guy that is the same age as her. I have the answer, and if one does not do the trick i came up with seven of them.  


1. Us girls we like to be heard.  It is a proven fact that girls talk a lot and very often an older man will give us his undivided attention.  Due to his age he knows better than to interupt us while we are talking about our potential problems.  When you are involved emotionally with a young one he will usually be annoyed by your conversation.



 2. Security.  Even though we are very independent we like to feel protected not just financially but emotionaly.  We like to know that that person will always be there wether you just need to talk to him or if you need to go out to a nice dinner.  A guy our age is most likely going to be scared of the same things that frighten us, therefore he will be of no help. 


3. Sexual encounters.  A good man under the sheets,  he is much older therefore he has had more sex with differnt girls.  Obviously he is going to know what he is doing and what you as the girl want done.  He knows the magic touch and he knows that special spot.  If you go crazy he wont judge you as a slut.  Most important he wont be telling his frinds because through his experience he knows that telling friends will only cause problems for him and deception for you.


4. Drama-less.  A olderman is less likely to pick an argument or a fight.  A young guy will tell you about the way you said hello to his friend, about any little thing.  Yet an older guy with his experience wont try to change you, but only love you for how you are and the things you do.  Even though the make up sex is good, making love is so much better. 


Marilyn Monroe, Salma Hayek, Heidi Klum,  Beyonce,  Megan Fox, Kim Kardashians these are some of the many girls who have dated an older man.  So young guys out there man up and dare to go up to that hot girl do not get intimidated by that gorgeous smile, or her voluptious body.  I am 19 I have dated older man, and will do it again.  Twenty year age difference yet we managed to talk for ours and have a good time.  I have never dated a guy my age, not because i have chosen not to.  It is because guys my age do not aproach me.  My family and friends say i intimidate them. 
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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:03am PDT

    Interesting post. As an "older guy", I agree with what you say.

    Take care, Pat

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  • urassismine2's Avatar
    Posted by urassismine2 Wed Oct 28, 2009 11:26am PDT

    I know for a fact that your very perceptive, and smart beyond your years...good post!

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  • Mia's Avatar
    Posted by Mia Wed Oct 28, 2009 4:17pm PDT

    They are much better!

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  • TheSweetHunnyBee's Avatar
    Posted by TheSweetHunnyBee Wed Oct 28, 2009 6:29pm PDT

    ok well i can see where your coming from on things like that but im not you see im dating a guy who is 21 years older than me and im a very spiritual kind of person so is he i connected with him on such a level it blew my mind i couldnt think straight without thinking of him, then three weeks later we were going out and i started feeling greater and happier than before, everynow and then i get gut feelings on his mood when we are apart and it affects me and mine and i think its amazing, but yes i see what you mean on some girls who do date older guys for all those reasons, me and my partner havnt gone into that whole sex range yet because we dont want to move to fast, yes the sexual attraction is there alwasy but we take it slow. thanks for your insight and i agree with urassismine2 aboput you being perceptive and smart beyond your years. well done

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Sat Oct 31, 2009 6:26pm PDT

    I actaully am dating an older Man right and I beleive all that is true but it has its downs sides but for me most of the good out weighs the bad!!!!!1 loven him always

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