Love + Sex

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  Posted by Renae Sat Jul 5, 2008 2:03pm PDT

  You deserve so much more than to degrade yourself just to pleasure yourself for the moment.

  Do you want to gain an std and a child? Or just the child?

  Consider your health as well.

  Put yourself FIRST. We all deserve to be happy.

  I am single as well. I know how tough it is to be alone. Though I have no children and none on the way, so I can't relate to you in that way. I do wish I had someone. But I don't want to degrade myself, just for a temporay good time and end up with an std. I want to be happy too.

  You deserve only the best. Just allow things to happen, the time needs to be right. I still have no one of my own yet. But I know he or she is out there. You are WORTH the wait and so am I. Keep your head up girl, and NEVER settle.....

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  Posted by Bunny Sat Jul 5, 2008 7:09pm PDT

  Your hormonal..it sux your pregnant and alone. ive been pregnant and you want that special someone to rub you down and confort you.. im sorry that your alone right now but i dont htink its smart for you to do anything with someone else at this moment its just not right having someone elses child and doing someone else...thats kinda weird on both ends..the fact your exs wana do you while your pregnant?? little off. just hold on till pregnancy over..please yourself if you have to but dont do that.

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  Posted by TEXAS ANGEL Sat Jul 5, 2008 10:04pm PDT

  well hon i am not pregnant but i know how you feel about spending the 4th alone. i have a so called boyfriend (who calls himself my fiance)who would rather stay home and play on the computer. i had to go to the firework show with my children (who left with friends) and a couple. and to tell you the truth it killed me to sit there with them all lovey dubby while i only had the air wrapped around me. men are so screwed up in the head. but stay strong and do hold off on the sex thing until after the baby is born for both of your health. and by the congrat

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  Posted by tiny Sun Jul 6, 2008 12:48am PDT

  WHAT EVER YOU DO....DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH YOUR FRIENDS RIGHT NOW. THATS JUST GOIN TO BEING YOU DRAMA AND STRESS...NO GOOD.THE BABYS FATHER ON THE OTHER HAND. TO heck WITH HIM YOU DONT NEED HIM GIRL. I TO YOUNG TO WORRY ABOUT ALL THAT BUT I DO KNOW HOW IT IS TO SPEND THE 4 TH ALONE. I WAS WITH MY LIL SISTER BUT ITS NOT THE SAME. I HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND WE DIDNT EVEN TALK ON THE 4TH. HE WANTED TO BE WITH HIS BOYS SO UR NOT ALONE. BUT YOU MOST LIKELY A REALLY PRETTY GIRL IF UR FRIENDS WANA GET WITH YOU. AFTER WHE BABY IS BORN JUS DO WHAT YO WANNA DO. SEX IS GREAT I KNO BUT THERE TO MANY THINGS YOU NEED TO WORRY ABOUT RIGHT NOW. IF YOU CAN FIND SOMEBODY THAT WILL BE WITH YOU TO HOLD YOU DOWN TILL UR BABY IS BORN N WHEN UR ARE REALLY READY THEN GO FOR IT BUT DONT HAVE NE ONE NIGHTERS WITH UR BOYS TILL THE BABY IS OUT. THAS WHAT I WOULD DO. SORRY WE HAVE ----- ED UP MEN N R LIVES..HOLIDAYS WILL BE BETTER

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  Posted by Down2Earth Sun Jul 6, 2008 3:39pm PDT

  You need to do what you want, what's best for you and your child. Hate to say it but men come and they go, as you have seen. Don't please anyone but yourself. Take care of yourself and your baby, be strong, the right guy will come along if that's what you want.

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