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Monday, November 30, 2009

5 Signs He's Lying to You

When a guy isn't being totally honest, his body language—not his words—will tip you off. Look for these telltale signs that he's fibbing.


1. Their Tongues Don’t Lie
If you ask someone a question and he momentarily flicks out his tongue or licks his lips before answering, he believes he’s about to get away with something.

2. They’ll Give You a Hand
A liar doesn’t want you to examine what he says too closely. And so he’ll often unconsciously bring a hand to his face — to scratch a nose, or rub an eye, or stroke a chin — in an attempt to “block” the words as they’re coming out of his mouth.

3.
They’ll Hold Your Gaze
Sometimes a liar is so intent on proving his sincerity he’ll stare into your eyes for an uncomfortably long time, trying to prove to you that he has nothing to hide.

4.
Their Thumbs Betray Discomfort
If he’s standing with his entire hand in his pockets — in other words, his thumbs are in, not out — he’s feeling nervous. It’s up to you to figure out why.

5.
They’ll Shrug at Odd Times
If he’s saying something definitive — “I was with my buddies last night!” — while shrugging one or both shoulders, watch out. The movement indicates that he’s subconsciously remaining uncommitted to what he’s saying.

Have you ever caught your guy lying? What clued you in that he wasn't being honest?

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  • Peter's Avatar
    Posted by Peter Thu May 14, 2009 9:03am PDT

    Dis sucks......its so not true

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  • DeadlyPoison's Avatar
    Posted by DeadlyPoison Thu May 14, 2009 9:10am PDT

    Another article to get me all paranoid.

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  • 80'sgirl's Avatar
    Posted by 80'sgirl Thu May 14, 2009 9:18am PDT

    I totally agree with "deadly poison" come on you guys!!!

    my husband of 17 years lies really good. I've caught him in a few good ones and it's always "I was just kidding" its always that.

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  • Ahleah G's Avatar
    Posted by Ahleah G Thu May 14, 2009 9:22am PDT

    You really have to take these tips with a grain of salt. My guy has a habit of flicking his tongue or licking his lips. He does it even when he's watching TV. So if I followed this to the letter then he would never tell me the truth. Much more useful to watch for him acting differently than normal when you're having a discussion. This post may give you a few things to pay attention to though.

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  • Leanna's Avatar
    Posted by Leanna Thu May 14, 2009 9:32am PDT

    that is soo cool that u can tell ure man is totaly lieing to you good way to figure him out thanx alot for all the help

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  • Leanna's Avatar
    Posted by Leanna Thu May 14, 2009 9:33am PDT

    Its great to know that, but how can you tell for sure if a guy likes you or not?

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  • Gabriela's Avatar
    Posted by Gabriela Thu May 14, 2009 9:38am PDT

    omg i showed something like this to my boyfriend and he does every single one of these!!! but he still wants to stand by his word and say that he swears that hes not lying.

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  • stephanie's Avatar
    Posted by stephanie Thu May 14, 2009 9:53am PDT

    ALSO DIVERTED EYES, BIG SIGN. AND SLIGHT PAUSES BETWEEN YOUR QUESTION AND HIS RESPONSE. THAT MEANS HE IS THINKING FAST.

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  • *GoldenGirl*™'s Avatar
    Posted by *GoldenGirl*™ Thu May 14, 2009 9:55am PDT

    Biggest #1 sign that he is lying to you- His lips are moving.

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  • farra's Avatar
    Posted by farra Thu May 14, 2009 10:00am PDT

    ladies stop pretending cuz you know when he is a lier...Stop looking for more signs and leave

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