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Tuesday, November 24, 2009

5 Strategies for a Happy Relationship

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Relationships require focus, and the chaotic bustle of day-to-day life is distracting. What’s a girl to do? Start with these five relationship strategies.

Independence Keeps Things Interesting
Doing everything together may sound romantic, but the reality is, well, a bit boring. If you each venture out on your own to explore new hobbies and friendships, you can come together to swap stories about twice as many new experiences.

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Pick Your Battles
Do you find faults in each other… all the time? It’s time to take a step back for a better view of the big picture. Before you nitpick, ask yourself this question: “In the grand scheme of things, is this really
important?” Your egos are equally as sensitive, and no one wants to be criticized constantly.

Forgive Each Other
It’s not a matter of who apologizes first. If you trust each other, you know that you generally have each other’s best interests at heart. Does that leave room for human error? Of course. Once you’ve acknowledged bruised feelings, recognize that the damage was not inflicted maliciously—and move on. Do you fight over these 11 things guys don't understand about women?

Laugh a Lot

Did you pay the credit card bill? Did you do the dishes? Did you pick up the diapers? Life happens, but, every now and then, dedicate some time to being silly and having fun: dance around your living room, eat burritos while wearing sombreros, have your own little wine and cheesy music party... The dishes can wait (trust me).

Touch

From flirty hand-holding to steamy sex, humans crave contact. The way you touch is what pushes your relationship beyond platonic boundaries—and reinforces your connection.

What relationship rules do you follow? What's your favorite way to bond with your boyfriend?

by Josey Miller

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  • gilmo78's Avatar
    Posted by gilmo78 Wed Feb 25, 2009 12:18pm PST

    Life in a new relationship is very hot and lusty, but doing everything together really is a bore! I love my man sooooo much, but our idea of a Sunday in is not the same... I'm a Leo, and he a Libra. He's a little heady, when I'm carefree and open. Laughter is always the key to a relationship. Keeps us all entertained. So go out and make new friends and come home for the real friend, who never judges you, and always makes you feels welcome!

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  • Kristen85's Avatar
    Posted by Kristen85 Wed Feb 25, 2009 2:28pm PST

    My boyfriend and I usually bake or cook something together to bond. We will pick out a recipe, go to the store together, and then bake or cook whatever we picked out. It's really fun because we are doing it together and we can enjoy the end result. You can also be pretty flirty in the kitchen...if you're baking cookies, you can lick the batter off eachother's fingers. It's definitely a fun way to bond!

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  • Joslynn's Avatar
    Posted by Joslynn Wed Feb 25, 2009 4:50pm PST

    love your self more than eny thang,

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  • Sarah's Avatar
    Posted by Sarah Wed Feb 25, 2009 5:03pm PST

    love him everyday,being comfident withhim is the best!

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  • Sarah's Avatar
    Posted by Sarah Wed Feb 25, 2009 5:03pm PST

    love him everyday,being comfident withhim is the best!

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  • THE GREEK /DOMBRENA,GREECE's Avatar
    Posted by THE GREEK /DOMBRENA,GREECE Wed Feb 25, 2009 11:52pm PST

    BOO

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  • KittyKat's Avatar
    Posted by KittyKat Thu Feb 26, 2009 4:24am PST

    For me and my boyfriend the key to a good relationship is communication and being open. Laughing instead of fighting. Listening to both sides. Maintaining a balance.

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  • Nose's Avatar
    Posted by Nose Thu Feb 26, 2009 5:20am PST

    Acceptance and choosing your battles. Appreciation and gratitude for one another. Words. Action. Touch. Looking into one anothers eyes. Being thoughtful and generous. Forgiveness.

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  • Holly J's Avatar
    Posted by Holly J Thu Feb 26, 2009 5:36am PST

    That you turlly like each other when the make-up is off. That you can be your rawest in the prescence of one another. Also, lots of laughter.

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  • kristi's Avatar
    Posted by kristi Thu Feb 26, 2009 9:45am PST

    how can you tell if hes not that into you any more? HELP>>>

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