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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

7 year relationship ends when I find out he has gotten someone else pregnant

What the hell now? Seven years of my life thinking I was with the "one" being there for him through all of his run ins with the law, getting him out of trouble, blah, blah, blah, in other words, raised the sorry b------ (he is 10 years my junior) and come to find out while he was out of state working, has gotten some girl he worked with pregnant!! of course he wants to deny it, but I told him straight up when he started cheating, and laid out the whole scenario before this crap even happened.
Of course it's over, he hasn't called me since I told him that I knew, but what I want to do is kill him with kindness, let him know he has lost the best thing that has ever and will ever happen to him but I want to do it in as little words as possible, he probably won't answer my phone call so I will have to text the spineless seed spreading b------ . Any suggestions?

Thanks
fletiqueme
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  • Somewhere N Iraq's Avatar
    Posted by Somewhere N Iraq Mon Oct 13, 2008 10:50pm PDT

    Why bother... move on, obviously he did.

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  • anarkie67's Avatar
    Posted by anarkie67 Mon Oct 13, 2008 10:57pm PDT

    You don't understand, the last time he was out of town working, he went 3 weeks without answering my phone calls, text messages, nothing, I got over him then, and one day he drives up like nothing had happened, now I find out about his other baby's mamma, and she obviously doesn't want anything to do with him either. He has to be told, DON"T COME BACK

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  • fcampcamp's Avatar
    Posted by fcampcamp Mon Oct 13, 2008 11:01pm PDT

    Not worth the effort, look for someone new and show your kindness that way......your EX is an @#%@#$@#, don't give him the time of day!!!

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  • lil abeshaF's Avatar
    Posted by lil abeshaF Mon Oct 13, 2008 11:06pm PDT

    I am sorry but I have to agree with "somewhere" above. Why do you put up with this in the first place? My suggestion would be to ignore him, do not make any contact, but if you really really feel you have to show him, dress up, have a date and go to a place where you know he would be..and seriously have fun..without even looking at him twice. That would get him I am sure...But the way I see it, good riddance for you...I don't think anyone should take care of anyone's BS like you did..may be it's time for you to find someone who you deserve....

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  • adilah's Avatar
    Posted by adilah Tue Dec 9, 2008 8:02am PST

    Yurp..he doesn't deserve you!

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