Money is a funny thing, the root of many of the world's evils and the cause of many fights and breakups. So with the understanding that I cannot speak for every guy (since some are cheaper, or more frugal or just plain weird), I am a going to spell the bill situation out as I see it.
Date One: Yes, Make the Offer
Most men want
to treat on the first date. He wants to show that he is in fact a
gentleman. This fine young man will reach for the check when the
conversation has settled a bit, pretend to check the figures, and
take out his wallet. What should you do? Ask if you can contribute
by paying the tip or part of the bill (be prepared just in case he
takes you up on it). This is your way of acknowledging his gesture.
We just want the offer. A sweet thank-you is also appreciated. That
is all men really want -- some simple recognition. But, do not go
further than making the offer -- do not insist on paying your half,
even if you're having the worse time of your life. This is like
saying to the guy, "I could never be interested in
you."
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