A Mistake or not?

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  Posted by Tender Love Sat Oct 10, 2009 10:35pm PDT

  Go to where your heart tells you to go.

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  Posted by maxglam Sat Oct 10, 2009 10:49pm PDT

  If you are having this "doubt" in your head now that you are dating this new guy, then maybe subconciously you really like the old guy more. Since both guys are great and they both make you happy, then just follow what your heart says.

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  Posted by Enamul H Sun Oct 11, 2009 12:21am PDT

  it is not easy to say a real lover wort.but it is defarent enjoy .it is not especetet for human being.love onyly one more more not for all.if any cacauses/reasone make u this fact u do love ur present lover too much what he want,what u have u give him hurry up.

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  Posted by Aiyub Sun Oct 11, 2009 2:37am PDT

  you will come in this world 1 time and go back 1 time there will be no twice so stick with 1 person whom u love its not necessary to take anybodys advice

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  Posted by urassismine2 Sun Oct 11, 2009 7:46am PDT

  I,..I,..I,..I,, am never satisfied. This lesson is missed by so many young minded females, and they usually end up stuck with what they get stuck with. The selfish behavior of some young females is what creates the thought processes in some young hardened guys. These are the guys who end up with an indifferent attitude about females because they have been hurt by some callus young girl. he goes on to treat females with indifference, impregnating some, as he travels through life, now emotionally damaged. They never learn this behavior on thier own. They learn how to treat women, from the females who treated them with indifferece. Its a shame that some females think that way of treating males, is alright. It is not and shows low character and a lack of compassion. The reality that a whole lot of females can't be trusted, at all spreads by word of mouth. Remember, guy's talk!. Some women act with fickle minds that are selfish, and self absorbing. Thier behavior creates these feelings in young men.These females end up lying to the mirror, about what they see in themselves and the happiness that they seek, goes right down the tubes, moving forward through life. They become miserable an wonder why thier relationships never work out. They lose sight of what is right, as opposed to what I,..I,..I,..I,..want right now. There is a price to pay, an its called unhappiness. Who she hurts doesn't matter because,...he's just some guy, in her eyes. This is a major problem with young females. The gold over there, always seems to shine so much brighter than the gold that she has in her hand. This is a major reason why so many young females end up "playing themslves" right out of what was the best thing that they could have expected, based on thier abberated thought process. When a young female "disposes" of a young man like that,..all she is doing is creating a problem for his next emotional situation...Just a thought..

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  Posted by Matt Sun Oct 11, 2009 9:05am PDT

  I really dont think you have much of a choice. I think you have to stay with the guy you are with now, I doubt your old one will take you back. I wouldnt if I was treated like that.

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  Posted by *GoldenGirl*™ Sun Oct 11, 2009 10:48am PDT

  Matt is right, are you assuming the "old" guy will take you back after you dumped him for another after 9 months together? I doubt it, not all guys are the type to go round and round.

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  Posted by Ingeborg Sun Oct 11, 2009 5:11pm PDT

  It seems to me you thought that there would be a better man out there for you. You said they both give you the same feeling. The first man you saw was only for 9 months. And now you are with a new guy. I think you are confused and you don't know who you want. The thing about life is when you are in situations you need to think about the pro's and con's. The CON with the deed you did is you will not be taken back by your last ex. The PRO is you can learn from the mistake. Take Care.

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  Posted by ~Honey~ Thu Oct 15, 2009 10:36am PDT

  wich one do you feel more comefortable with

  wich one is the one that you could talk about anything with him..think about the good and bad things about each one

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