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Saturday, October 11, 2008

Acceptance is the answer

In a book that I read frequently there an entire chapter devoted to acceptance. I feel that acceptance of self and other is important. And that if I can practice acceptance instead of focusing on my expectations, I get along in this world a little bit better. Acceptance has nothing to do with if I like or dislike something. Sometimes I say "It is what it is." Sometimes its just that simple. Any thoughts?

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  • Bbee's Avatar
    Posted by Bbee Sat May 10, 2008 8:49pm PDT

    No, Jeff it not that simple .... let me explain myself.

    I love many different kinds of people that do things I do accept or condone.

    To break it down for you I love you but I may like you.

    However, to have an open heart and that is what I think you are going for here is a pure love and the highest sign of respect.

    GREAT POST!

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  • Bbee's Avatar
    Posted by Bbee Sat May 10, 2008 9:17pm PDT

    Dude,

    I messed that all up ... I meant to say I love many different kinds of people that do things I do NOT condone or accept.

    I meant to say I love you but I may NOT like you.

    sorry Jeff! ... I must lost my mind on the Crazy Train!

    Be back in about 30 minutes ... by the way what do you do in your real life?

    And I did mean it when I said .... GREAT POST ... and I know that book you speak of.

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  • Autumn-Leaves..'s Avatar
    Posted by Autumn-Leaves.. Sun May 11, 2008 2:30pm PDT

    That is what I hold my standard to in almost all areas of my life. Acceptance of the real person and who they are. I don't want to know who others want you to be. I simply accept you for who you are and I surely don't try and change you. It would be quite boring to all be what we all expect the other to be. I like you you Jeff, the you that is really you. Oh Yeah! Stay You when no one is looking. Smiles....

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  • Chanel's Avatar
    Posted by Chanel Mon May 12, 2008 1:38pm PDT

    What is this book called?

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  • Mitzi T's Avatar
    Posted by Mitzi T Tue May 13, 2008 7:00am PDT

    *SENDING 'COMMENT' DATE:'TUE.MAY13TH;2008.'

    *'COMMENT':I SAY;"HELLO!!" : ) .

    *SUBJECT:JUST TO SAY,"HI!"..JEFF.

    *SOLVING PROBLEM:I"HOPE" 'ALL'-THE-WORLD TO YOU..JEFF!;-

    MAY"GOD"-BE-WITH-YOU!!-"!ALWAYS!" "GOD" IS YOUR"HELPER"-&-"PROBLEM-SOLVER." YOU ARE"BLESSED" TO HAVE 8 YR.OLD WITH YOU! : ).

    HAVE A BLESSED DAY!

    MEMO:I DO AGREE WITH YOU;UPON YOUR LIFE.MAY THE"LORD" BE WITH YOU! : ).

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  • VICKIW's Avatar
    Posted by VICKIW Tue Jun 3, 2008 12:17am PDT

    I TRY TO LOVE EVERY ONE I ACCEPT THAT EVERY ONE IS NOT THE SAME,THIS IS WHY WE ARE TO HELP OTHERS,I HAVE WORKED WITH ALL AGES AND EVERY ONE HAS BEEN APART OF MY LIFE FOR A REASON.

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  • jolie's Avatar
    Posted by jolie Tue Jun 24, 2008 4:15pm PDT

    JEFF, I AM FEELIN YOUR PAIN WITH THIS DIVORCE THING BUT ACCEPTANCE IS KINDA HARD TOO TO ADMIT BECAUSE EVERYTIME YOU DO ACCEPT THINGS WITH YOUR PARTNER IT HURTS SO BAD.... HAVE YOU READ SOME OF MY BLOG? ITS SAD.

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