So my husband and I have been divorced for about 24 days now and he
has had the new girl in his bed for a lot longer than that. In
fact, she has been in our bed even before I knew things were
turning south - go figure. Well one of my best friends (a guy) and
I have been talking a lot lately. I have been pouring my heart out
to him and really using him as a crutch to help me get through
things. I have told him things that I probably would never write in
any journal - its that personal and intense.
One night things started to heat up a little and with level heads
we decided not to do anything (this is all post-divorce). When we
talked about it later, he kept hitting on these notions of
principles: I was his friends wife; we are too good of friends; sex
changes everything, etc. etc.
Okay, I get it. He's a man of principle. Well, today, photos of
him and my ex-husband's girl showed up on the internet, being
all chummy chum!!! I know that he and my ex are still friends;
however, when I saw those photos, I felt really betrayed. What
happened to his principles? He has a problem with kissing me; yet
he doesn't see how detrimental it is to flaunt around with the
girl who replaced me? Am I overreacting? I just feel like my best
friend, who knows pretty much all my deepest feelings, whether he
wants to or not, has just stabbed me in the back. Like - hahaha
Jenn. I mean, seriously...am I warranted in feeling this way?
Am I Overreacting?
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Posted by Sat Oct 17, 2009 9:12pm PDT
Report AbuseI do not think you are overreacting!!! I do beleve you have a right to feel betrayed, you told everything to him and he could have been honest to you from the beginning about his relationship with that girl. I am so sorry that you have had such bad luck with this so called friend.
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Posted by Sat Oct 17, 2009 9:29pm PDT
Report AbuseYeah he stabbed you in the back. You need to find a new activity or friend to take your mind off of people who don't care about your feelings. Start caring more about yourself than them. It all sounds negative. I hear your inner strength though. You'll be ok. Just get it all out so you can put something better inside of you.
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Posted by Sat Oct 17, 2009 11:56pm PDT
Report AbuseI was in the same boat as you your in the right to be angery.
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Posted by Sun Oct 18, 2009 12:47am PDT
Report Abuselook for some thing to get you by for now but be friend let the person know and keep it save in life god first, then you, if they good to you then they stay if not walk away but there friend`s would have sex with a friend yes if it don`t work out they become better friends but if you have sex with someone you don`t know you don`t know what you are getting in the end.....
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Posted by Mon Oct 19, 2009 8:24pm PDT
Report AbuseDamn Again with this B.S.
Ladies wake up... You've been played not once but twice... I'm pretty sure he knew the girl before you went to him your Ex's friend... Did you ever stop and think... I guess not yeah he's man with principles a bunch of BULL s---... he only stop because of the Male Code 101 never sleep with your friends woman... If he wasn't cool with your Ex he would've slept with you.. trust me on this...
Yes you should feel angry because like this makes it harder for women to love and trust another male...
I say give yourself sometime
Things will get better for you... Please just read my post this will lead you on the right path...
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