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Wednesday, December 9, 2009

AM I WRONG FOR FELING LIKE THIS??????

Well here is the story, ths guy and i have been talking as friends for a while and i htought things would work out but i just insisted on being friends because i had a boyfriend. Now the situation is a little complicated we started messing around and i began to catch feelings (i think) but anyway i liked spending time with him. as the time continued to past we seperated because he wanted a relationship and i didnt. so i come home from work to find out that he is messing with a girl that i know...me being me i get mad and confronted him about it. his response was why do i care when im not his girlfriend. i was stunned by his reaction to hte siotuation. now i feel sad because it kills me just knowing hes with someone else...am i being jealous and selfish or am i just being considerate of my feelings. what do you guys think????
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  • mizunderstood's Avatar
    Posted by mizunderstood Sat Dec 6, 2008 9:51pm PST

    i think u were in the right to ask him about the situation.i mean even though u didnt take hia offer to be his girl dont make it right for him to deal with a friend of urs....he's probably still mad that u turned him down thats why he prolly was so nasty with his comment.....as for you feeling sad thats normal if u like him its okay to feel some type of way about the situation but u cant be mad at him cuz he did offer you the oppertunity first...you cant play with his emotions if you really dont wanna be with him than allow him to move on with his life he cant sit around and wait until ur ready

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  • Patrice's Avatar
    Posted by Patrice Sun Dec 7, 2008 9:45am PST

    If you liked from the beginning you should have went with that. You can't get mad at him for moving on or playing childish game to get u to notice. You confronted him and now it time to move on. Next time don't take so long to figure out if you want to be serious or if you want the other person to move on.

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  • DesertDude's Avatar
    Posted by DesertDude Tue Dec 9, 2008 9:59am PST

    Move on and get a life. Forget the childish games or the he said/she said stuff. Set your goals high, work hard and get a life. There are plenty of fish in the sea. Don't go blaming him, you are just as much to blame. Grow Up! Life is too short to sweat the load over dating dumps. It's almost like professional sports. When a team trades you to another team, you don't need to go bad-mouthing the old team. Same with life. Don't need to go bad-mouthing the past. Strive for the future. In the long run, you were probably not right for this one anyways but at this point you don't realize it.

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  • malou_hates_guyz's Avatar
    Posted by malou_hates_guyz Wed Dec 10, 2008 5:45pm PST

    ....well,u may have been falling for him,but i think its not the case,....its juzt that u' ve been messing with that guy and end up nothing then,made u feel used and dumped and it badly affects u're emotion............

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  • malou_hates_guyz's Avatar
    Posted by malou_hates_guyz Wed Dec 10, 2008 5:48pm PST

    ....well,u may have been falling for him,but i think its not the case,....its juzt that u' ve been messing with that guy and end up nothing then,made u feel used and dumped and it badly affects u're emotion............

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  • PRETTY 0 ME's Avatar
    Posted by PRETTY 0 ME Tue Dec 16, 2008 10:01am PST

    HOW COULD YU POSSILY BE MADD...IF HE WASNT YA BOFRIEND....YOU HAD A BOYFRIEND SO I'D SAII YOUR BEING SELFISH...YOU WANT YOUR BOYFRIEND...DIS MAN N ON TOP OFF ALL OF DAT YOU DONT WANT HIM WITH ANOTHER GIRL...SMH NOT A GOOD LO0K LET HIM DO HIM...N YU GET IT 2GETHA CUSZ DATS LIKE SORTA CHEATIN IF YU ASK ME

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  • Kouros K's Avatar
    Posted by Kouros K Mon Feb 2, 2009 10:05pm PST

    I think no one is perfect. You have a boyfriend but may be you feel you need a friend, so this means you are missing something and that is friendship not love in sextual way. Friendship is something else, you need a friend who can understand you, this can be a boy or girl to whom you can talk discuss the matter for sad time or nice time. I think this is missing in your life, try to invite your friend and make a party and find out who can understand you more than other. You can not ever 100% be sure someone can be very close to you so don't expect too much.

    Good louck

    -Kouros

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