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  Posted by Dark Force of Nature™ Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:43pm PDT

  Best way to find out "if" a guy is really into you is to let him chase you. Don't put out. Meaning don't kiss on first or second date. The longer you wait, the better. Beyond kissing and holding hands, be even slower to get intimate. Make him work for it. If he is really into you. He will wait because you are worth it to him. Most guys that are looking for a booty call won't waste their time. Just don't be a tease. You want a guy who wants to be with you for you. Not because he is looking for a booty call. Good Luck!!!

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  Posted by Mauna Wed Oct 21, 2009 6:50pm PDT

  Why don't you just stop beating around the bush, and really talk to him about what is bothering you....if there is no change, perhaps you may want to consider moving on. Here's a little secret: You can teach an old dog new tricks, however, it is a total different story and experience when dealing with top of the food chain critters.

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  Posted by Matt Wed Oct 21, 2009 9:02pm PDT

  I think it depends on their meaning of "hard to get". If its sex the answer is yes. I have never really considered dating a girl i have hooked up with after a couple dates. If it is leading up to the asking out, then I would have to say no. Men, me in particular most times, are simple and kinda dumb creatures. This means we do not get your little hints that you drop. Also I know that if I call a girl and she doesnt return my call, then I move on because i assume that shes not into me. I would say If you like the guy just tell him its the simplest way. Ive always said I will never turn down a girl that had the guts to ask me out.

  I hope that helps

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  Posted by Tom Wed Oct 21, 2009 9:09pm PDT

  well the operative word is "play" as in "hard to get" if it isn't something natural to you then don't do it as its an act and people generally don't like games of that sort. you didn't specify what you mean by "boy problems" which caused you to think acting hard to get would solve. So its hard to give advice on it.

  I don't like it when women play hard to get, because it is just a game of hide and seek and really isn't what they are and it comes out in the wash anyways and just leaves me thinking what other manipulative tricks does she have in store to get what she wants. if their are problems the best way is just talk about them and don't back down from what you think is fair and right.

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