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Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Are You Too Damn Sexy "Down There"? What Shape Are You?

 

  I have to admit, I never gave the matter of waxing my Nani a second thought. By no means was it even a first thought.  I always perceived waxing as something “other” people did. Growing up and in my adult life, this was never a subject among my peers.

 

My grooming routine consisted of keeping the bush from growing out of control and being too, well…bushy. Then I read an article on a waxing service called a “Brazilian”. I was fascinated to learn that a Brazilian was removal by waxing of all pubic hair, including hair in the anal area. Whoa! I instantly flashed back to one of my attempts at caving in to my curiosity. I was about 23 or 24 years old. With no encouragement or influence from anything and anyone, I shaved my Nani. Yep, I got me some body wash, lathered up and gave her a Telly Savales. After staring in the mirror for a good ten minutes and giving my work a thorough examination, I anticipated the return of my shroud. My Nani resembled five o’ clock shadow, felt stubbly, and the grow back period?!…Ugh!!! Let’s just say it was very, very, very irritating, literally!

 

The article featured actress, Vanessa Williams speaking candidly about the upkeep of her Nani. She was a Brazilian regular. The article also featured other Black celebs, which did the same. Women who look like me are waxing “down there”. Now waxing had my full attention. My interest in my Nani upkeep turned into an obsession. I researched it like a student studying for a final exam. I learned that strip wax tends to strip some of the skin along with the hair (painful), and Hard wax would be best for coarser hair texture. Also Hard wax attaches and dries to the root of each hair follicle allowing the convenience of one quick pull, no re-dos in the same area. After calling around and asking a bunch of questions, I gave one more try to making my Nani cosmetically appealing. While lying on the table, legs wide open, Nani fully exposed, I imagined all the possibilities. Would I go Brazilian, the triangle, landing strip, or the cute little dot circle just above the lips. My first run I decided on the strip. The hard wax never let me down and my Esthetician completed her job in just a few pulls. The whole process took about 10 minutes and when I got up and looked in the mirror, the clouds parted, angels were singing, and light of heaven shined through. I couldn’t stop touching my smooth surface and looking at my landing strip. That was three years ago and I have been a front row seat fan ever since. I love the result of being bare down there cosmetically and hygienically. Every chance I get I talk to my fellow sista’s about waxing in an attempt to crush the myths and fears. I love the fact that I’m so damn sexy everywhere…literally, everywhere.


Godspeed ~ Latoya
www.hollaatyagyrl.com                                                                                                       

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  • Shameka Gant's Avatar
    Posted by Shameka Gant Sun Jul 6, 2008 6:50pm PDT

    GRIL I KNOW WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT YOU LOVE BEING BARE DOWN BELOW IT LOOKS A HOLE LOT BETTER.

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  • Sean's Avatar
    Posted by Sean Wed Jul 9, 2008 11:17am PDT

    As a male I like when my woman keeps her Nani neat. Not shaved completly but more the landing strip type and also around her anus. I am very oral and get mre excitement on the cleaner areas down below. Just my thoughts

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  • WordsRmylife's Avatar
    Posted by WordsRmylife Wed Jul 9, 2008 1:40pm PDT

    Hey Sean

    Kudos to you for being Very Oral. I just wrote an article on my website about men not going down. You don't fit my criteria but you should read it and put the brothas in check.

    Go to www.hollaatyagyrl.com, then click on sex and relationships and you should see it on my blog roll. Its called: Ladies, Still Waiting on that Trip Downtown?

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  • Sean's Avatar
    Posted by Sean Thu Jul 10, 2008 11:44am PDT

    Will do words. Thanks for the kudos. Can't wait till my next Trip Downtown.

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    Posted by Fri Jul 18, 2008 10:33am PDT

    That is the funniest blog I have read today. I have always used a razor but the way you make the difference sound I will be making an appointment to get waxed this weekend. The shaving method works well for me and leaves me looking very nice. But I am curious about the difference. See ya.

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  • unknown's Avatar
    Posted by unknown Tue Aug 12, 2008 10:43pm PDT

    i love shaved vagina's its awsome how clean good it looks and my opinion most panties are not designed for big bushes. i mean what do i know. keep that hair off please. easy excess baby

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    Posted by unknown Tue Aug 12, 2008 10:43pm PDT

    i love shaved vagina's its awsome how clean good it looks and my opinion most panties are not designed for big bushes. i mean what do i know. keep that hair off please. easy excess baby

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