Art of Seduction

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  Posted by Tracey 4m Arkansas Tue Oct 28, 2008 8:31am PDT

  Ears! Light breeze of your warm breath on his ears, soft kisses to his neck, and lower waist. Don't head straight for the goods. Four-play is important for both men, and women.

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  Posted by KIDD Tue Oct 28, 2008 8:31am PDT

  sexy undies do it for me... maybe candles and a bath, finger food

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  Posted by Joe Dabb Babbalucci Tue Oct 28, 2008 8:39am PDT

  Go to Waldenbooks or Bookbinders or some bookstore and go to the section for sex manuals. There you will find not only excellent sex guides but some books on seduction and intimacy. Linda Corn has some that are imaginative. Most people are sexually illiterate.

  One way to seduce a man is to communicate about things that interest him. Naturally, sex is a hot topic, but so are other topics. Stay away from politics! Discuss things that can have a life-long interest you may wish to share with him, such as fishing or cars. Not many women have an interest in weapons, but if you can bait your own hook and fish, you will have his interest. Share some great recipes with him on fish. If you can really make a great meal from a trout, you will keep his attention.

  Learn to talk easily and then stop to listen. Don't dominate a conversation. Ask questions, then give him a chance to respond. It shows you value his opinion.

  That should give you some starting points on which to improve your chances to seduce a man.

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  Posted by Mr.Motion Tue Oct 28, 2008 8:44am PDT

  WHILE SINCE I AM A MAN I KNOW WHAT I LIKE; SOMETIMES FOREPLAY AS IN A WRESTLING TYPE,SOMETIME I JUST LIKE A WOMAN TO LICK AND SUCK ON MY CHEST OR NECK AND EARS....BUT THERE ARE SOME TIME WHEN I LOVE IT WHEN A WOMAN JUST TAKES CHARGE AND DOES WHAT EVER SHE WANTS TO DO....BUT I SPEAK FOR ALL BLACK MALE MY AGE(28) I THINK WHEN I SAY IF YOUR INTO ORAL AND GOOD AT THEN IT'S LIKE HEAVEN ON EARHT LOL.....

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  Posted by ink junky Tue Oct 28, 2008 8:45am PDT

  yes, i agree with "tracey" definetly the ears, the area under the ears is especially sensative.

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  Posted by Romala Tue Oct 28, 2008 9:08am PDT

  lose ur shy.

  If shy comes into ur bed, the sweet goes out of it :)

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  Posted by *MISS TONI* Tue Oct 28, 2008 9:54am PDT

  it depends on who this person is

  you're trying to seduce..

  YOU have to pay attention to

  what turns this person on.

  When you find out,

  make it happen..

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  Posted by Mell Tue Oct 28, 2008 11:07am PDT

  When you want to suduce your lover all you do is start early. like at dinner. give him seductive looks through out the night. when you thank him hug him and kiss him on the neck then look at him in the eyes and just give him a flirty smile.

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  Posted by Chey Thu Oct 30, 2008 7:05pm PDT

  I do this many times to my boyfriend and he goes crazy all the time and grabs me.

  act shy and giggle a lot.

  kinda put your shoulders up and put your fingers on your lip.

  wear short shorts and cross your legs.

  bite your lips and look at his eyes with a seducing look like you want him.

  breathe in his ear and whisper something that will make him want you like "you know you want me" or if you want it dirty just say "I want you in me".

  he will literally grab you and slam you on your bed.

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  Posted by ..... Mon Nov 10, 2008 11:45am PST

  Wow! Great question. For a man, it is pretty simple to get him aroused with a lot of visual stuff, like wearing a short skirt, or shorts, low cut blouse, flirting with him. Also talk dirty to him every now and again, say something really naughty to catch him off guard!!! He'll rip your clothes off in no time....

  You might out to play my game I have up. It's a great icebreaker if your to that point. Have fun!!!

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