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Wednesday, December 9, 2009

Ask Dr. Kate: I recently had unprotected sex. What should I do?

Dr. Kate,

I had unprotected sex a few days ago (oral and penetration). I know it's stupid and I've been alternately kicking and lecturing myself ever since. What I'd like to know is this: how soon can I get tested for STDs? I don't mind going in several times to get the tests, since I know different things show up at different times, it's just I'd like to start getting answers to my worries as soon as possible. Thanks for your help.

Stupid and Worried


Dear SAW, You're not stupid--we all get careless with something in our lives now and again. You just need to take care of yourself going forward. Different infections do show up at different times, so you're looking at a few trips to your gyno over the next six months. There's no single right answer, but I would recommend:
  • testing for chlamydia and gonorrhea (cervical swab or a urine test) and trichomonas (vaginal swab) in two weeks
  • blood testing for syphilis and HIV in 3 months
  • blood testing for HIV again in 6 months
I know that it seems an incredibly long time to wait, but you don't need to get tested before it will tell you anything. And have you thought about Plan B? It's the emergency contraceptive available "behind the counter" (on request from the pharmacist) that can help prevent pregnancy up to 5 days after sex. This way you can avoid at least one unwelcome test result...

Best of luck,
Dr. Kate

Related: The STD risks when you don't use condoms.

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  • vblizzy's Avatar
    Posted by vblizzy Tue Oct 7, 2008 6:39am PDT

    I understand your concerns.. The best thing for anyone to do, is keep it wrapped... If you are not mature enough to care about yourself, then maybe you are not mature enough to be having sex... Take Care.

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  • socorro's Avatar
    Posted by socorro Tue Oct 7, 2008 7:52am PDT

    myname is john holland and i want to be a sailor simply because of all the gay buttsex they have on the ship!!

    guys get at me on yahoo...silly.john22@yahoo.com

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  • Pam's Avatar
    Posted by Pam Tue Oct 7, 2008 10:31am PDT

    I have a question!?? if a pregant women said she do in sept.and now claiming she do november .when did she get pregant?? i just need a month she goting pregant.i think my boyfriend cheat on me and i try to find what month and where we together.

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  • Bobbie's Avatar
    Posted by Bobbie Tue Oct 7, 2008 12:17pm PDT

    whats the best pregnacy test u can get

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  • Raveen's Avatar
    Posted by Raveen Tue Oct 7, 2008 6:00pm PDT

    Hay,,

    Your are not the Only One....

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  • Swami's Avatar
    Posted by Swami Wed Oct 8, 2008 4:52am PDT

    sex is the qestion not the answer

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  • Judy's Avatar
    Posted by Judy Wed Oct 8, 2008 7:56am PDT

    yeah.. sex is the point. Careless is just excuses....wanna talk more funny or useful things about sex? I found an online space and make some friends you know --- i n t e r r a c i a l c h a t s.c o m..... really not bad, you can try...

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