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Friday, October 10, 2008

Been cheated on.....What ever happened to being faithful???

I have been the woman cheated on, by a man who wanted the "other woman", cause of her job and what she lived in......
This country has gone down hill and there is no such thing as being "faithful" it has faded and having morals is un-heard of.....

What ever happened to men being faithful???
Why can't men have any sense and just end it if they are not happy???
If you are not happy, break up with her, don't cheat on her, and rub her face in it.....

Why as a woman do you feel this need to cheat on your man???
If you are not happy, why don't you just break up with him, must you rub his face in it, by cheating???
Women are just as bad as men and be just as much of dogs as men......

Being faithful is so yesterday......
What about the next generation???
I guess they will just move and shake like in Hollywood.....
It is not about caring about how the other person, it is about filling a need, RIGHT NOW.....
What goes around comes around........

In time all will pay for their wrong doings......
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  • cute thing out there wish you can have me's Avatar
    Posted by cute thing out there wish you can have me Fri Jul 4, 2008 3:49pm PDT

    wow im sorry nfor this type of people out there.i hope u find the one

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    Posted by cute thing out there wish you can have me Fri Jul 4, 2008 3:49pm PDT

    wow im sorry nfor this type of people out there.i hope u find the one

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  • Maggie M's Avatar
    Posted by Maggie M Fri Jul 4, 2008 3:50pm PDT

    My Grandmother once told me, "Never believe your husband, they are all liars and cheaters." I took her word and everything is fine with my marriage. So I guess, men have never been "faithful" it's not in their genes.

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  • ub2crazee's Avatar
    Posted by ub2crazee Fri Jul 4, 2008 3:55pm PDT

    There are some with morals left, however, you cannot knit a silk purse from a sow's ear as Uncle Remus Agustus Faithfuldude said.

    I guess you get what you play for. Hard lesson to learn, especially the not-so-hard-way .... THAT was obviously across town.

    I am sorry for you and your situation ..... was stuck in a similar one for all too long until I got out, and I did it the not-so-hard-way, even though I had to pay the price as if I had been a cheater.

    Bottom line is that you are you and deserve a faithful friend and lover, if you give as as much as you get. Believing is seeing sometimes and seeing can be believing .... i guess it's all about the right vision and beliefs at the right time.

    I wish you all the luck in the world ... DIVORCE blows ass.

    And FOR THE RECORD : "I believe in Yesterday" !!! (penned by insects)

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    Posted by ub2crazee Fri Jul 4, 2008 3:58pm PDT

    Grandma needed to get laid.

    Hey, cute thing - wanna play Grandma ?

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  • marissa g's Avatar
    Posted by marissa g Sat Jul 5, 2008 3:44pm PDT

    I have had 2 cheating husbands! I just feel like the one getting cheated on needs to leave & get out it will happen over & over! I have found out in my situation that it was my lying cheating husband with the problem! I am a good, faithful, & fine women & a praying wife! So I am moving on! I know the God, I serve has better for me than standing with men who can't keep there thing in there pants! So, all the men & women out here who has been cheated on by their husbands or wifes all I can say what goes around will come around! & God, has the finally say & they will be jugde!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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  • Isis's Avatar
    Posted by Isis Sat Jul 5, 2008 4:07pm PDT

    If you do not love someone, tell him/her. I have lots of friends that are marriage and told me that they never would cheat to her wives unless I say yes to them. Sometimes a man or a woman can have that fatal attraction. If he/she is alone and the other part too, fine. If one is not single or engage...move on.

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  • StrongNuf2Bgentle's Avatar
    Posted by StrongNuf2Bgentle Sat Jul 5, 2008 7:52pm PDT

    I have had my heart broken 5 times by women that loved me but wanted to see if the grass was green on the other side. They all fooled around on me behind my back for weeks at a time, including my ex-wife of over 20 years. They kept me on the back burner knowing I am a forgiving person if thier "new" relationship didn't work out, my feelings didn't count because they were happy at the moment. Everyone of them came back wanting me to take them back because the grass was either dead or dieing on the other side. What comes around, goes around and they are all miserable with thier inconsiderate choice.

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  • johntek42's Avatar
    Posted by johntek42 Sun Jul 6, 2008 9:37am PDT

    Yep...been cheated on too by the wife of 15 years. Man I am glad she did..kicked her out finally. She not only cheated, she changed her name to Hoover too, as in she was vacuuming my money behind my back, for years. Dumb me!

    So yeah...TRUST...guess that is a brand of condom and nothing more.

    I do love someone else for like 2 years now...and Trust has changed from being a brand to something like a hard pill to swallow. Hard as it is...I just have to trust her, and hope for the best. Geez I am back to square one..like I have never learned my lesson. I guess Love has a way of making one feel like being on a roller coaster ride that ends where it starts...nowhere!

    Faithfullness...it is a matter of choice. I did make that choice, blame it on love, nothing more.

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  • Renae's Avatar
    Posted by Renae Sun Jul 6, 2008 10:38am PDT

    John it is so sad that either sex has to cheat, it her loss....There is no excuse for cheating.....Cheaters never prosper....

    I may never be able to trust again, fully, his cheating damaged me in some ways for good....

    Honesty is the only policy in my book..I won't settle for being 2nd again...If a man or woman is looking to cheat on me, there ass is gonna get kicked to the curb, no if ands or buts....

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