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Friday, December 4, 2009

Black women, Black men, and why we cannot learn to adapt to one another.

ATTENTION: THIS IS NOT A RUDE, GENERALIZED, MEAN, NASTY POST.
IT'S JUST 3 GIRLS, (ME, MY FRIEND AMBER, AND MY OTHER FRIEND CHELSEA)

Me(Jelissa): Hey well today we are here talking about bm/bw (black men, black women)
and why we cannot get along. We get along, but this is the reason why WE CANNOT
DATE OR GET ALONG (thoughts we have about eachother) not saying we can't,
I'm telling you all what black men think about us black women, and what black women
think about you black men.

Amber: Well what i think is that african american women tend to think that when
they see a black man, they automatically think that, "Oh child, he's a player,
Oh girl, He loves them white girls," OR "Girl, he broker than a b---- ."
TRUST ME, that's what runs through a black woman's mind 99.9% of the time.
And the other 1 percent they're thinking, "Oh, i want to get to know him, Oh he
looks so sexy, But would he think i'm ugly because of my color," crap like that.

Chelseaaa: Hmm, amber has a good point. Well what i think runs through
a black man's mind about black women is, "DAAAAMN she fine, but she look
like she gonna' nag me or she'll just scream at me", OR "DAMNN she looks like
she's a hard to get kind of girl, she looks like she'll shoot me if i come at her."
NO NO NO BLACK MEN, STOP GENERALIZING ALL BLACK WOMEN.
WE ARE NOT ALL "LOUD" "ANGRY" AND "RUDE" LIKE YOU ALL SAY.
MOST OF US ARE JUST AS KIND HEARTED.

Me(Jelissa): So when a black man and a black woman FINALLY gets together,
it's all good at first, but SLOWLY BUT SURELY, they will get tired of eachother.
And it's not because of the attitude going on between the TWO of them, it's because
they want ANOTHER RACE. I've grown to see this all over around where i live,
(brooklyn,ny) they are tired of the same skin tone they're seeing EVERYDAY.
Why is it like this? I'm not saying that most black men and black women are
thinking this way, but HEY! you and i know it's the TRUTH.



ALL THREE OF US: WELL TO CONCLUDE ALL OF THIS, WE ALL
WANT TO TELL YOU GUYS ON SHINE THAT IT SHOULDN'T MATTER
ABOUT THE COLOR OR WHAT YOU'RE THINKING ABOUT
THE PERSON YOU ARE INTERESTED IN, WHAT MATTERS IS THAT
YOU SHOULD AUTOMATICALLY BE WILLING TO GIVE THAT ONE
PERSON A TRY. STOP "THINKING" STOP "THINKING YOU KNOW"
THINGS, AND GIVE THAT PERSON A TRY!! DON'T JUDGE A BOOK
BY IT'S COVER.

- God bless, and god LOVES YOU!!!<3
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