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  Posted by ~*PRECIOUS*~ Fri Aug 8, 2008 2:28pm PDT

  Well I think u should sit him down and tell him wats really going on and y u really got bck together... tell him all u really wanted to do was b friends and nothing more bcuz u don't feel the same connection that u did b4

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  Posted by Alex Fri Aug 8, 2008 2:37pm PDT

  Break up with him. You should never stay with someone because you might feel bad about hurting their feelings. That's life; you are just wasting your time with him.

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  Posted by Tracey T. H. Fri Aug 8, 2008 2:41pm PDT

  Sam, you have to go with your heart and your conscience. We can not tell you what to do; all we can do is offer advice. Some advice may be good and some may not be. In the end the ultimate decision is all yours. If you are afraid to leave your boyfriend now, you may never leave him and ultimately end up marrying someone you really do NOT love. This is YOUR life and only you have the ability to make it a happy one or one of regret. Sometimes you only have one chance to make a life changing decision. This may be that one chance. Once it's gone, it could be gone forever. Unless you act now, this one guy that you REALLY like may just be "the one that got away".

  In 1989, I was working a security detail at a hospital. I developed a relationship with a student nurse by the name of Kim. Kim was the all American girl. She loved Barry Manalow, drove a red Volkswagen Cabriolet; she was thin, smart, blue eyes and LONG red curly hair. She was everything I could ever want in a girlfriend. We started dating and I was a real jerk to her. She broke up with me not too long after we started dating. I blew it BIG TIME!!! To this day I kick myself for acting the way I did. Kim was "the one that got away". Don't let that be you. It is quite apparent that you are not in love with your boyfriend and maybe you should end it so you have a better chance of happiness with this other guy. In the end you will actually be doing your self and your boyfriend a favor. You will be happier and he can learn from his mistakes. I say go for it and give the other guy a chance.

  GOOD LUCK!!!

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  Posted by rachel may :) Fri Aug 8, 2008 2:49pm PDT

  grrr! thnx but idk he has waited so long to be with me and when school starts again i have all year with him and everyone eelse in the high=school i just always have my gard up andim not sure if i should let him in or not i mean seriously y would he wait a year and 2 months just to get in my pants?

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  Posted by SUNSHINE Fri Aug 8, 2008 2:49pm PDT

  I AGREE PRECIOUS; U NEED TO TELL HIM THE TRUTH BOUT HOW U FEEL. IF HE'S GONNA HATE U FOR LEAVING HIM, THEN HE'S NOT WORTH UR TIME. NOT EVEN TO STAY FRIENDS WITH. A FREND OR ANYONE WHO CARES FOR U SHOULD CARE FOR UR HAPPINESS. I THINK BY U STAYING WITH HIM IS GONNA HURT HIM MORE THEN LEAVING HIM, CUZ THEN IT WILL BE LIKE THE TIME U SPENT WITH HIM WAS A LIE AND THAT JUST MAKES THINGS EVEN WORSE. BUT IF U HAVE NO LIFE TERM COMMITMENTS WITH HIM, THEN JUST LET IT GO. UR YOUNG AND SO AM I AND IM LEARNING, I GOTTA LIVE FOR ME AND NO ONE ELSE. U CANT MAKE SOMEONE HAPPY IF UR NOT HAPPY. THINK BOUT IT, AND TALK TO HIM. THE SOONER THE BETTER................ GOOD LUCK

  XOXO

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