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  Posted by wildchild Thu Oct 1, 2009 3:54pm PDT

  I think that this is comendable. You just do not see this anymore and i wish we did. So refreshing. The girl that you bring this piece of info to should find this to be nice or a good thing i think and if she does'nt well i don't think she's much worth having or you'r type any way. Would'nt it be nice to find a gal just like you and you two could start out anew. How exciting good luck.

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  Posted by mike d Thu Oct 1, 2009 4:26pm PDT

  I would say to just come out w/ it. I'm guessing that things are progressing to a point where this info might be important? If that is the case, then anytime you feel comfortable would be the right time. Wildchild is right. If she is freaked about by this, then she isn't the one for you. Best of luck!

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  Posted by Baby - J Fri Oct 2, 2009 1:30am PDT

  Congrats on that! You shouldn't feel ashamed of anything. You are a very VERY rare man and I wish I was so lucky to have one like you. She should feel very special to be blessed with this. You should just come out and say it to her one night. Just tell her that you have had something on your mind thats been bothering you for a very long time. It's been a secret you've been holding in and haven't told her because you care deeply for her and don't want her to change on you because of it. Tell her the truth. If she cares for you she wouldn't mind it at all and actually feel very happy about it. If she gets bent out of shape about it than she is just not worth your time and just get rid of her and move on. It sucks but people are very ignorant in these days especially women. Take it from me I am one and I know how we think. Good Luck and don't stress about it. That just shoes you have more morals and self respect than most of the male population at least thats how I would take it.

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