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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Broken Heart? Find a Fix On the Internet

Web 2.0 may be the most cathartic thing to happen to breakups since a pimply middle schooler invented slam books.

Recently, we happened upon a charming little website called DearOldLove.com. The concept is very simple: Much in the way that PostSecret.com publishes postcards with people's deepest secrets written on them, DearOldLove posts small, poignant notes from people who have one last thing to say to that one old love. Under the guise of anonymity, it's surprising how much that is left unsaid between ex-lovers can find itself out in the open for all to read. Read: Ways To Let Go Of An Emotional Love Affair

Some of our favorites from DearOldLove.com (Brace yourselves, some of these are bummers):

• "I’d still like to go skydiving with you, only now it’s just an excuse to push you out of an airplane."

• "I will never forget how much you meant to me and how little I meant to you."

•  "When your new hippie friends abandon you, I’ll be here waiting. With Taco Bell."

• "I would follow your Twitter through the very gates of Hell. (I think I already have.)"

• "Just because it was in a public restroom doesn’t mean that there wasn’t something there."

• "You say you’re lonely since I left. Not as lonely as I was when we were together."

Now that the Internet has grown into a two-way street full of anonymous drivers, it has become a means of therapy for some people with relationship frustrations and/or regret. Whether you turn those feelings into a full-on blog a la MyHusbandIsAnnoying.com or vent anonymously to an online community, the Internet is, for many, the new way to cope with everything from dirty socks to heartbreak. Read: When You Google Regrets

Given the overwhelming amounts of unrequited love and breakup angst on DearOldLove.com, we're kind of curious, what's been left unsaid between you and an ex?

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  • Carrie's Avatar
    Posted by Carrie Fri Nov 13, 2009 12:25pm PST

    I think the most important thing about past love is forgiveness. My ex and I were oil and water. I forgive him for the way he treated me. I hope its mutual.

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  • Donald M's Avatar
    Posted by Donald M Fri Nov 13, 2009 1:28pm PST

    I forgive you, I forgive myself. I hope you are well and living the life you were dreaming of when you were with me.

    God bless you with his peace, love, and mercy.

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    Posted by Donald M Fri Nov 13, 2009 1:30pm PST

    I forgive you, I forgive myself. I hope you are well and living the life you were dreaming of when you were with me.

    God bless you with his peace, love, and mercy.

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  • Promethius's Avatar
    Posted by Promethius Fri Nov 13, 2009 1:34pm PST

    i am alone and i need somone to make me fee human agian

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  • Promethius's Avatar
    Posted by Promethius Fri Nov 13, 2009 1:34pm PST

    verry full of love

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  • Promethius's Avatar
    Posted by Promethius Fri Nov 13, 2009 1:35pm PST

    i"ll be there

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  • Promethius's Avatar
    Posted by Promethius Fri Nov 13, 2009 1:35pm PST

    yes

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  • BelenW's Avatar
    Posted by BelenW Fri Nov 13, 2009 3:56pm PST

    I agree, I told my heartbreak story on shine. When I read every ones comments, I felt so much better. I'm ready to move on and find love again.

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  • Psychic  E.S.'s Avatar
    Posted by Psychic E.S. Fri Nov 13, 2009 5:41pm PST

    It is good to keep in mind also, that the people we are most drawn to are the people that God wants us to learn the most from. Usually, something about ourselves & what we need or want. Be constuctive & love again!

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  • Aira's Avatar
    Posted by Aira Fri Nov 13, 2009 6:53pm PST

    ppl find writing as the easiest way to open up their feelings, but in my case i am still looking for the right words to say...it is so confusing to stay in my place...

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