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Tuesday, December 15, 2009

CAUGHT IN THE MIDDLE!

  What do you people think when adults fight over something stupid and all their friends take sides and you want to be neutral? I mean if a person wants to still talk to both parties. I myself say if you want to remain friends with me you don't have to like my friends no more than I like all your friends.
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  • J Montana™'s Avatar
    Posted by J Montana™ Thu Mar 5, 2009 7:00pm PST

    Do you like me?

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  • dolphin™'s Avatar
    Posted by dolphin™ Thu Mar 5, 2009 7:01pm PST

    Jax,

    Man is that not on the money!

    I have to stay nuetral.

    I'm not one on taking sides.

    No discussions about other parties.

    If there's a problem, I say take it there!

    If it's with me, Bring it here!

    My sisters and I have to keep things in check,

    Or at least they do.

    I have three sisters, I can speak to all of them.

    But the youngest has cut out the other two.

    So when talking, nothing is ever spoken about youngest to oldest,

    Visa- Versa,

    Really sucks, But at least they all still speak to me.

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  • snow bunny's Avatar
    Posted by snow bunny Thu Mar 5, 2009 7:06pm PST

    A real friend won't make you choose sides. And people who are grown up will set aside petty ways and let others have their own opinions. To fuss about things that aren't important in the grand scheme of life, is just adding stress that isn't neccessary. We all are different, thank God, and we must agree to differ. "My opinion is mine, therefore, yours doesn't matter." That's how wars start. People need to get over themselves.

    Snow

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  • Brandy's Avatar
    Posted by Brandy Thu Mar 5, 2009 7:08pm PST

    Jax,I feel the same way you do we are not teens.I do not pick sides.and I would not ask someone to pick a side that is just not right.

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  • LADY-JANE's Avatar
    Posted by LADY-JANE Thu Mar 5, 2009 7:08pm PST

    HEY SOUTHERN COMFORT, YOUR UP AND RUNNING ...........WOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOO

    FOR YOOOOOOOOOOU........

    I'M A FRIEND TO WHOM I CHOOSE ...........NO ONE CHOOSE'S MY FRIENDS FOR ME.............

    LIKE YOU FOR INSTANTANCE............LOL........MUUUUUUUAH SWEETIE

    HUGZZZZZZZZZZZZ FOR YOU TO PASS OR KEEP, YOU ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE.......

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    Posted by LADY-JANE Thu Mar 5, 2009 7:08pm PST

    HEY SOUTHERN COMFORT, YOUR UP AND RUNNING ...........WOOOOOOOOO HOOOOOO

    FOR YOOOOOOOOOOU........

    I'M A FRIEND TO WHOM I CHOOSE ...........NO ONE CHOOSE'S MY FRIENDS FOR ME.............

    LIKE YOU FOR INSTANTANCE............LOL........MUUUUUUUAH SWEETIE

    HUGZZZZZZZZZZZZ FOR YOU TO PASS OR KEEP, YOU ALWAYS HAVE A CHOICE.......

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  • casy's Avatar
    Posted by casy Thu Mar 5, 2009 7:34pm PST

    I AM WITH DOLPHIN TOO. AND SNOW BUNNY. DON'T TAKE SIDES. WHEN YOU ARE FRIENDS WITH ALL, AND OTHERS AREN'T , THEN JUST STAY OUT OF TAKING SIDES. STAY NUETRAL IN THE LONG RUN ITS BETTER...SEE NO EVIL, HEAR NO EVIL, SPEAK NO EVIL................LOL.....Casy....Have a GREAT night ........Catch at COFFEE time am.................LOVE YA JAX.............

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  • Peapod's Avatar
    Posted by Peapod Thu Mar 5, 2009 7:39pm PST

    You know, I have lived long enough and have had enough hardship in my life to not stay worried about what someone thinks of me because of who I am friends with or not friends with. Of course I wish everyone liked each other. I will be kind to anyone that is kind to me and I could care less if it's someone that isn't so popular. And you know what? There are always two sides to a story. Always! And just because two people get into a fight does not mean one has to be labled as the bad guy and the other one the good guy. Even nice people fight with each other and we are ALL capable of being hurtful to one another. So I believe there is no reason for anyone to feel like they have to pick sides to prove their friendship and loyalty to someone. Sometimes the kindest thing you can do for a friend is just be their shoulder and support them but let them work out their issues. Nothing warms my heart more than to see a fight resolved and kind words exchanged. I get to see that here sometimes and it's what keeps me comming.

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  • snow bunny's Avatar
    Posted by snow bunny Thu Mar 5, 2009 7:58pm PST

    Amen, Peapod! I like your way of thinking!

    Snow

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  • LADY-JANE's Avatar
    Posted by LADY-JANE Thu Mar 5, 2009 8:39pm PST

    WELL SWEETIE,

    I'M OFF FOR THE NIGHT AND WILL TTY2MARROW.............

    THE MIDDLE IS A GOOD PLACE TO BE, YOUR NOT ON EITHER SIDE.............

    I'M HAPPY TO SAY I WOULD CALL ALL SHINER'S A FRIEND IN KIND, I DO LOVE PEOPLE (ALL).............

    HUGZZZZZZZZZZZZ FOR YOU TO KEEP OR SHARE..............

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