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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Chris Brown and Rihanna Living Together: Hating That I Love You

The Chicago Sun Times has released a statement claiming Rihanna and Chris Brown are back together and living with each other. With public opinion and a roar from celebrities such as Oprah Winfrey about domestic abuse, sources are saying that Rihanna would like to keep the news of their cohabitation out of the limelight for now.

Sources have stated: “Unfortunately, Rihanna still wants him and has told all of us to ‘get over yourselves. … I’m with him, so deal with it.’ ”

This is a sad day for women all over who have suffered at the hand of their attacker and choose to go back to the situation that put them a hospital and in the middle of a police investigation.
 
Why is it so easy for women to return to their attacker? Is independence so difficult that putting yourself back in a situation where violence may again stem from a heated argument or a desire to control the other is easier than walking away?  Are you disappointed in Rihanna's decision to return to her attacker? Do you feel sorry for Chris Brown and all of the hate media he has received and glad he is back together with his love?


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  • POETRY's Avatar
    Posted by POETRY Tue Apr 28, 2009 6:51am PDT

    Apple, I went through this in my first marriage. i must have left 5 or 6 times before I left for good. once i was out for good the power held was removed and I could see clearly my next step which was to divore him.

    thanks for such a interesting post. keep them coming.

    poetry

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  • Apple's Avatar
    Posted by Apple Tue Apr 28, 2009 7:07am PDT

    Thanks Poetry, I am glad you are out of the situation you were in. Good luck in the future.

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  • First L's Avatar
    Posted by First L Wed Apr 29, 2009 1:46pm PDT

    i mean maybe the guy learnt from his mistakes...i remember when he was on the tyra show saying that he wouldn't treat a woman the his step father treated his mom...if he learnt from his mistakes, GOOD,but if not...baby girl you gotta get the hell outta there.

    that was a great post apple :)

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  • alice's Avatar
    Posted by alice Thu Sep 17, 2009 3:31pm PDT

    hey, get over yourselves, it is none of our business!!! I feel that they both need counseling and are both young enough to change whatever behaviors lead to the incident. Both of them are basically children. If the public will just back off and allow their parents to help guide them through this time in their lives. We are all capable of change if we really want to change, so give the kids a break!!! Besides, when could anyone convince another woman not to go back to her man regardless of what he has done to her such as being unfaithful, lying, and even physically abusive. I have never suffered it and my father was not an abuser. I raised my two girls and one son to not suffer or dish out abuse in any form and that's where it has to start. All of these "do gooder" women who are flapping their jaws about it have either never been abused or have finally gotten out and I am sure that they did not listen to their friends and family either. And please don't bring up Nicole Simpson because she stayed as well and was still hanging around OJ after the divorce I guess for her drug money! Why not try to feed the hungry children or something and leave Chris and Rhianna alone!!!!!!!

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