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Monday, December 14, 2009

Confidence IS Sexy

I was hanging out with a friend today, and, like most girls do, we spotted a few guys who werent the greatest looking. However, there was something about the way they acted that caught our eye. That something was the fact that they displayed confidence. The way they walked, the way they talked, it was just, well, sexy. I think if a guy walks around with his head high, gives him a little bit more sex appeal. Confidence naturally makes one question why they are so confident, it intrigues us. We like someone who is comfortable in their own skin Dont confuse this with cockiness. A cocky, over confident man is definately a TURNOFF.
The fact is though, you can have average looks, but if you feel that you look good, its hot. Confident sexyness isn't just limited to men. I talked to my guy friend about this subject. He said "Yeah, I mean if a girl knows that shes hot, but doesn't take it to the extreme, she is hot." Girls that dont show some type of confidence in themselves are also less likely to get hit on by men. Its understandable because i mean, c'mon, who wants to be with someone whos insecure about themselves. If they're insecure about themselves, their insecurty can make you feel that way about yourself. Confidence is an admirable trait to have, so if you have it, flaunt it! The bottom line is, guys AND gals like a challenge. Confidence is a challenge.



So the question is, do you find confidence in the opposite sex, well, sexy ?

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    Posted by keith Sat Jun 27, 2009 2:37pm PDT

    When I was a young man, I would fall under the spell of, what might be considered, not good looking girls. What did it to me was they dressed well and exhibited lots of confidence. The combination of factors was exciting and a huge turn on. They always seemed to have a more dynamic personality than really good looking girls have. I felt they were very engaging.

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