I know this guy whose married to someone very close to me, but
he's always on Facebook complaining about her and talking with
other girls from his past. He's always talking about how
she gives him this super like honey-do list when she's the one
cleaning the close, taking care of their two kids, cleaning
the house, and, not only that, working to his every whim.
He's taking advantage of her status as wife. That
doesn't mean that she is his maid. When he comes home
from work as a service rider he sits around smoking cigs and
watching television, sometimes in his room playing on facebook,
while my friend is working with her son and daughter, and making
food so that they have something to eat for dinner.
Of course, my main concrn if his constantly being on Facebook and
not caring a rats ass about his family could cause a lot of
issues. Especially when he makes comments about how he works
so hard at home and has a really long honey-do list when he just
sits there being a lazy bum. Along with that, they already
have marrital issues. Most of the time, this man is on
Facebook talking to ex-girlfriends, friends, and people who have
devorced or are going through a divorce. Many of the things
he says lead them to believe that my friend and him need marriage
couseling, which if he'd actually cared enough to listen to her
he'd know what he could help her with to get her to be
content. He thinks he does nothing wrong. He is
very open with some of his "girl" friends that are on his
Facebook.
What I'm Curious about Facebook is it possible it might ruin
their relationship more that it already is?
Could Facebook be a potential problem?
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 2:17pm PDT
Report AbuseSorry for the choppy spelling, I get irritated when I mention him. >:|
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 2:22pm PDT
Report AbuseObviously your friend is married to a dumbass that's trying to escape reality like a child. Good luck to her marriage...if she knows what's good for her she'll pack her bags and go, then tell him to blog about it.
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 2:25pm PDT
Report AbuseYes. Infact, facebook could be a kinetic problem!
Once one identifies a problem, I believe in fleeing.
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 2:26pm PDT
Report AbuseDo I think Facebook is a problem? No, I think he is. While the internet does make it easier for bad people to be worse it's important to remember that they were still bad people to begin with. I think this guy's lack of appreciation of his wife, his insinuated lack of involvement with his own kids, and cheating ways (cheating isn't always physical) are a potential problem. If Facebook wasn't around this type of guy still would be out there at the local bar behaving just the same claiming to be working late.
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 2:28pm PDT
Report AbuseYes it is coming between their relationship and he is making it/them a priority and not his family, if he has issues or problems he needs to bring it to the wife and work it out, if I was her or you I would feel the same. She is neglected, the family is neglected while he is playing online. Only a matter of time before it explodes.
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 2:33pm PDT
Report AbuseI think Facebook just adds to something. I mean, he'll get on Facebook and help his friend when they ask quicker than he would his wife. He is quite an ass. P.s. I appreciate the comments. (:
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 2:37pm PDT
Report AbuseI also agree he's the problem not Facebook. And he's trying awfully hard to get someone's attention. I mean most men "looking for someone else" will use phrases like this - I do "all" the work! I come home from a hard days work and have to do this n that etc...
He's trying desperately to appear like the "perfect" catch. When meanwhile he's a complete and total idiot and I can't dread to think the poor female who falls for this thinking this mans for real. I just hope that's not the case nor does this happen but he's out to do wrong. Again, why lie or even give out details as to what you do in your home and what your wife doesn't. That's personal and he's crossed a thin line between husband and wife.
I hope your friend and her children will be fine - even when he's long gone. Continue to be a good friend to her - she's going to need one.
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Posted by Thu Aug 13, 2009 2:03pm PDT
Report AbuseI'm unclear as to if you have told her about what you know or not. At any rate, if she chooses to stay where she is that's going to be her issue and problem, not yours. All you can do is support her decision and I would advise you to stop driving yourself crazy by reading and/or looking at his Facebook page. The problem is between the two of them and whether or not he uses Facebook I doubt makes much of a difference.
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