The current generation of young men spend more time emulating music video artists than in developing the communication and physical interaction skills necessary to sustain a relationship with a woman. Women today, just as they have for hundreds of years, would still rather know that a man has a stronger bond with her than with his "boys". They still appreciate flowers, movies, walks on the beach, beautiful sunsets, and quiet dinners. Women still enjoy holding hands, soft music, and being spoken to, not talked at. And they still look forward to being surprised by small gifts at times other than just birthdays and holidays.
Yes, romance is quietly fading away. But, as a man who still opens doors for women, enjoys preparing special meals, and calling a woman by her name instead of references to a dog, a part of me has hope that there are women who still appreciate a gentleman.
With that being said, there is something that I must confess. It must be known that in no manner imaginable can I be mistaken for an expert on "love". But I have found that there are creative ways to express your emotions, and let a woman know how much you love her. Sometimes, it's as simple as just spending time with her. But at other times, it's a matter of engaging in her interests. That is doing some of the things that guys don't normally do.
Cooking Classes
If she is the one that does most of the cooking, she'll certainly appreciate sharing the responsibility. One of the best ways to show her that you are sincere, is to invite her to take a cooking class with you. This actually has a dual benefit; First, you'll participate in something different together and improve your skills in the kitchen. Second, it allows you both to spend quality time together.
Ballroom Dancing
With the recent success of dance programs on television, ballroom dancing has slowly become the new fad. Surprise your girlfriend with a certificate for dance classes, then surprise her even more by joining her. Once again, this is a great opportunity to share time with one another, and also benefit from the exercise.
Walks Together
My favorite is a walk on the beach, but the park will also do. The objective is just to spend time and communicate. Communication is another fading art form, so every chance to improve in that area strengthens the relationship. Map a route that allows you to stop to buy her an ice cream cone and a rose. It's a small gesture, but she'll appreciate it.
Of course, the spontaneous gift of flowers and the impromptu night out still carries a lot of weight. Small gifts are always welcome, and let her know that you were thinking of her while not in her presence. The phone call during the middle of the day, just to say "I love you" is another great way to show you care.
I am not a Casanova, player, nor as the sultry Sade' would croon, a smooth operator. I'm not the guy that other guys would envy, with the beautiful model sitting next to me in a Ferrari Testarossa, her hair blowing gently in the breeze as I talked on the latest wireless gadget. And I'm not the guy that has to come up with excuses about why I can't take my woman out, because my boy has me hooked up with some "hottie".
I'm simply a guy that still believes that a lady should be treated as a lady. I believe that women still likes to be shown attention, and that they enjoy being touched, held, and kissed under the moonlight. I've learned through experience what creates smiles which beam with affection and appreciation, and I've learned which experiences send me to the dog house. Most importantly, I've learned that the best way to show someone that you love them, is just simply to show them love. I may sound somewhat nostalgic, but I still believe in romance.
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