If I am dating a guy, something must have attracted me to him. Maybe, it was a physical attraction at first. After a few dates you know if it is more than physical. It's having the desire to be with him.
You find out what you have in common or if you have the same
interests. When you meet that perfect guy, the things you were not
interested in become interesting.
When your with that perfect guy, he makes you feel happy and
special. The things he says or his voice makes you feel so good.
Your not looking to change him because you like him just the way he
is. Look into his eyes, it will tell you a great deal.
The perfect guy is the one who accepts you for who you are. Even if
there are things that you do that he does not agree with, he is
still there. That shows he cares. This guy realizes that you would
probably change certain things, especially if you loved him.
In a relationship, it is very important for both of you to show
each other trust and compassion. If either person does not trust
the other person, than there is a problem. And if one of you
can't show compassion for the other person than it will never
work. Relationships are built on a foundation of trust, honesty,
respect and love.
When dating a guy, it does not take long to know if he is the right
type. But if your feelings are getting stronger and you know he
feels the same way too, than I think he might be the perfect guy.
It takes time to know for sure. But sometimes, something just
clicks and you know. The only problem with this is we need to make
sure that this guy is true.
Unfortunately, there are guys out there that are great actors or
players. You know, just looking for one thing. Some women can pick
up on this right away and others may need to get hurt a few times
before they know.
Some signs that will tell you if he is really true are trying to
rush you into having sex or not taking an interest in you at all.
If you have had sex. Does he still call you or even want to see
you? Does he make excuses for not being able to see you?
Well, this usually means he is done because he got what he
wanted.
After awhile of seeing a certain guy, you will know if your ready
and if it is safe to be intimate. When you know you can let your
walls down and actually feel safe with him. You don't need to
be afraid to do things for him or treat him special because you
know he won't take advantage of you. This guy will appreciate
you.
My perfect man does not need to be rich or have a fancy car. But
the feeling has to be there. He has to trust me and accept me for
who I am. By trusting me, together we can make any necessary
changes. My perfect man will never tell me I'm not good enough
or say I need to do this in order to continue our relationship. Any
man like this needs to be looking for someone else.
