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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Designer Vaginas: Worth the Pain?

Before you decide to chop off part of your labia to make it prettier, British researchers would like you to consider the possible complications that might arise.

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Ronda Kaysen
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It might come as a surprise, but slicing off part of your labia -- a procedure known as labioplasty -- can destroy nerve endings, thereby impairing sexual satisfaction and arousal. It can also cause serious complications during childbirth, complications that usually happen to women who've had genital mutilation. Think excessive bleeding, vaginal tearing, and death of the baby.

It's not clear how many women get labioplasty, but the procedure is on the rise. Most women who end up on the operating table with visions of a prettier vagina are there because they feel that their vagina doesn't look like the ones they see in the girly mags, according to both the researchers who criticize the procedure and the doctors who happily perform it.

"Lads' mags are looked at by girlfriends, and make them think more about the way they look. We live in times where we are much more open about our bodies -- and changing them -- and labioplasty is simply a part of this," Douglas McGeorge, past president of the British Association of Aesthetic Plastic Surgeons, told BBC News.

Researchers say that a woman who turns up at a doctor's office wanting her vagina examined should really be having her head examined instead.

"Quality research is needed to improve our understanding of the psychological drivers behind women's decision to sacrifice sexually sensitive tissue that contributes to erotic experiences, for a certain genital appearance that used to be an obligation only for some glamour models," Dr. Sarah Creighton, one of the authors of the study, told BBC News.

Some women say they opt for the procedure because their protruding labia make tight-fitting clothes or riding a bicycle uncomfortable, claims the researchers find hard to stomach given the fact that men rarely complain about discomfort from their protruding genitals, which, we can safely assume, protrude more than even the largest of labias. Other women report that they want to reshape their nether region to please their partners.

"I do think there are women who get this procedure for reasons that are medically necessary, but I share the authors of this study's deep concern and mistrust of the motivations of those who offer the procedure and the way in which the option of labioplasty -- cleverly marketed as vaginal rejuvenation -- is offered," momlogic OB/GYN Dr. Suzanne Gilberg-Lenz said. "I am relieved, in fact, to see the academic community pay attention to what I believe is potentially a highly misogynist racket fueled by the mainstreaming of porn images into the culture."

Really people, these are your best bits. You should probably be nice to them.

Ronda Kaysen is a freelance writer. Her work has appeared in the New York Times, Washington Post, BusinessWeek.com, Architectural Record, Huffington Post, New York Observer and AM New York. She lives in Brooklyn with her family.

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  • TJ S's Avatar
    Posted by TJ S Fri Nov 13, 2009 12:28pm PST

    Beautifully done. I, for one, don't mind large labia or really care if they're small. And any guy who does, he needs to learn that the world doesn't revolve around his desires and images he's got in his head about how something should look. Plus, ladies, OUCH! Try having a pair of balls to cart around or a penis that "gets in the way" when doing the simplest things....If men even think about something going NEAR their genitals, we start to get nauseous. LEAVE THEM ALONE!! And besides, what if you do this crap and the guy you like or love STILL doesn't like it? What if YOU don't like it after it's done???

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  • Gigi's Avatar
    Posted by Gigi Sat Nov 14, 2009 8:37am PST

    I have uneven lips and I don't care. It really doesn't matter how it looks (unless you plan on being a porn star). Most guys just get in and get out. Even with oral sex, the lips are not the focus of the activity.

    Good post though

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  • G's Avatar
    Posted by G Sun Nov 15, 2009 3:05pm PST

    Natural is usually best. I would never put myself through that hell. If a guy does'nt like you the way you are walk on.

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  • GirlyGirl©'s Avatar
    Posted by GirlyGirl© Sun Nov 15, 2009 3:07pm PST

    Nobody's coming near my nether regions with a scalpel! Mine is fine!

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  • Don Juan Demento's Avatar
    Posted by Don Juan Demento Sun Nov 15, 2009 3:33pm PST

    If only I had a girlfriend right now. I'd love her as she is,never mind the "idealized" porn images!

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  • Maria's Avatar
    Posted by Maria Sun Nov 15, 2009 3:48pm PST

    Unbelievable!!!! There are women in Africa who are forced by their tribes to have their genitals mutilated, and American women are paying thousands to voluntarily have it done to them!! Strange world we live in.

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  • Forever A Diva's Avatar
    Posted by Forever A Diva Sun Nov 15, 2009 4:02pm PST

    This the most ridicules thing I have ever heard of. Women need to learn to accept who they and have a good self image of themselves. If my mate wanted me to go through that procedure, he would have to go through it first. Love me or leave me it's as simple as that.

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  • Just me...'s Avatar
    Posted by Just me... Sun Nov 15, 2009 4:06pm PST

    This is the stupidest thing I have ever heard of. If a guy gets that far, believe me, he is just happy to be there and doesn't really care about what it looks like.....

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  • Heidi's Avatar
    Posted by Heidi Sun Nov 15, 2009 4:40pm PST

    A guy would have to be seriously into porn to even care, and if he's that far into porn, he's probably not having actual sex anyway. I have never, NEVER heard a guy say anything about the looks of a woman's vag. Ever.

    I guess unhappy women have obsessed over and changed every other thing they possibly can about themselves, so this is like all that's left.

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  • Bsj's Avatar
    Posted by Bsj Sun Nov 15, 2009 5:19pm PST

    I just think it's another case of women trying to fix relationship / life issues by changing something on the outside and ignoring the problems inside their own heads. I know from experience, I had a woman in my past that had, 1. a nose job (she wanted to have Jennifer Lopez's nose) 2. a booty lift 3. two boob jobs in less than five years 4. the above mentioned vaginal / labial reduction ( she wanted her kooch to look like she stepped out of a porn) 5. a tummy tuck. I loved her but, she never understood why. I felt that way before all the procedures. Years later I found out she was a victim of sexual abuse. All the money she spent should have been spent on therapy.

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