Ok well if you read my first blog, Is he worth my time, then you know what im talking about. You can still comment to what Im about to write though. Well last night I called Edgar to see when he's going to come and pick up his clothes. He was in Dallas and that pissed me off even more. I knew that he was going to Dallas for a few weeks but I thought that he would at least be considerate to let me know when he was going to leave. It also would have been nice to see him before he left. Anyways I asked him when he would want to come and pick up his stuff and he was like, "Is it in your way?" No its not in my way but for the way hes been reacting I figured that I guess he's not taking our relationship too serious. Im confused to whether we're dating or not.
So Im on the phone with him and he's hanging out with some friends and talking to me and to his friends and so thats irritating me even more. So I ask him again when he's going to pick up his clothes and he asks me "What are you trying to say? I was going to surprise you this weekend and go see you but since your acting like this then Im not going to go anymore." So I kinda felt bad but then he gives the phone to one of the guys that he was hanging out with "Lil Wayne" (I dont know if I believe that) and he starts talking to me. Asking me why im so mad and upset. Look I had a bad day at work that day and then all of this stupid stuff with Edgar I was like in tears. So angry and frustrated. I finally get on the phone with Edgar and was like, "What is wrong with you? Why are you a dick?" and just told him to call me whenever he really wants to talk. He then hung up on me! WTF!!
I text him and told him that if he wants to continue dating then we really need to talk. He calls me like an hour later and was like, "What do we need to talk about?" Keep in mind with a ton of noise in the back and I can barely hear him. I even think that he was drinking, which I dont mind him doing, but when Im trying to be serious it just really pisses me off. I just kinda flipped out and was like you need to stop acting like an 18 year old and act your age. Hes 24 and hes just being hella stupid! I told him that he needs to call me when he really wants to talk and be serious. Not when your around all the guys because chances are your going to be a dick in front of your friends. So call me when your alone or whatever. He hung up. Ok REALLY?! WTF IS WRONG WITH YOU? Its like start acting like a little b---- and grow up.
So im like did I over react? and Im back to is he really worth it? do I really deserve this? We've only been dating for like a month and hes already making me cry. My sister said that hes going to end up breaking my heart if I continue dating him. She also thinks its the birth control thats making me go crazy because of the hormones. I dont know but Im already kinda crazy and I dont need to be extra crazy to mess up a relationship. I really dont need that because Ive already messed up relationship by being crazy and over reacting. I dont know what to do. Should I apologize? Or should I stand by what I said?
Did I over React
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Posted by Fri Aug 8, 2008 7:48am PDT
Report AbuseLeave him alone to he is ready to GROW up... Good LUCK LUV to all
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Posted by Fri Aug 8, 2008 7:58am PDT
Report AbuseYou did not overreact. He's playing mind games with you and it's working. Doesn't it suck though. Stick to your guns and wait for him to approach you and discuss things. He knows exactly what you are talking about.
Good Luck Dear, and don't let him get you. He obviously wants you in his life. But let him come to you and sincerely tell you that.
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Posted by Fri Aug 8, 2008 8:03am PDT
Report AbuseI agree with your sister hes going to break your heart you should move on he seems kinda mean and you olny been together a month you deserve better
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Posted by Fri Aug 8, 2008 8:25am PDT
Report AbuseI'm a bit confused here, and I'm the kind of person who really doesn't like to be confused about much. I see "Kenny_Chacon? Are you a guy in a homosexual situation? Is this a "gay man" scenario? If it is, then there is a basic difference in the way that a person recieves your message.The difference is in the "thought and thinking", to consider the different type of lifestyle, in responding to the situation in which you are describing to us. The differences between the interactions of heterosexual couples or sexual encounters, based on lustful interactions, is definitely different that that of homosexual encounter, of the same dynamic. The responsibility to fully make aware, without any deception, the full magnitude of the situational subjects, in responsible behavior. It is that, especially with the inference of a true situation that you seek a response, that affects the way someone may eventually feel about responding to your blog. Attempting to slip in, with a "my sister" addition to the story, without identifying your true gender base, seems a bit dishonest on some level. People are commenting thinking one thing, and the truth of the manisfestative ideal, is something totally different. Right now, I don't know how to honestly respond to your blog because "I am confused about what you have written". I'm not judging you. I merely can't tell, based upon your name, who I'm dealing with, deceptively.
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Posted by Fri Aug 8, 2008 8:38am PDT
Report AbuseDon't get angry, because I'm not trying to start any drama. I'm just being honest about my confusion, in regards to your scenario, in which to comment intelligently.
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Posted by Tue Aug 19, 2008 10:25am PDT
Report AbuseIt sounds to me that he dosn't have the feelings for you that you want him to have. He is 24, how old are you? In my experience people this young don't know what they really want in a partner. You should live your life and if he decides that he wants to be in it then it is your decision to let him in. First things first, make you happy. He isn't making you happy, my opinon is that you should move on, live your life and when "Love" happens it won't hurt so much.
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