A lot of my friends complain that their flatchested and that they want bigger breasts so guys will notice them.
I told them that they shouldn't do anything like plastic surgery because you're still developing and you'll grow more.
I read a lot online about this topic. I saw that a lot of girls ask their parents for the surgery and a lot say that it was the best thing they ever done. However, many others say it was the biggest mistake because they "jiggle" when they walk or run and they get teased for it.
The next day, I told my friends this and they still won't listen to reason. They kept saying that the only thing guys look for is the "junk in the chest."
Well, guys, tell me. Are my friends right or are they wrong?
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 9:01am PDT
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 9:10am PDT
Report AbuseI am 28 happily married and flat chested. All guys are different and find different things attractive. Some guys are butt men, boob men and some only go for red head heads.
Getting plastic surgery to get noticed is crazy. Men like women who are confident and comfortable with their body. Tell your friends if they want to buy a bra thats ads a cup size to go for it but plastic surgery to get attention wont make them feel better.
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 9:30am PDT
Report AbuseBig boobs are distateful and uncouth, they will make you seem like you are a cow. bottom line is that the men of this country who like big boobs and most are taught to like them mainly because most of them are very infantile and have incestual thoughts about dating their mom.
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 9:34am PDT
Report AbuseI want to add that the woman who feel the big boobs are the answer to get a man(in this country anyways since the boob thing is emphasized here as an important aspect of a woman and the relationship-seems very narrow and also disgraceful) doesn't have any assets to get a man so they use making excuses and mostly their sexual organs as a way to intice them.
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 9:34am PDT
Report AbuseI, for one, don't care what the size is, as long as it's natural. And if they want guys that want girls just for their chest, then by all means, they should manipulate themselves for that purpose, no matter how dumb it is. What happens when a girl with a bigger size or a better chest comes along? Another thing is, yes, there are guys that like bigger chests but they want them natural. What happens then? You've gone and altered yourself to be something they don't want. Tell them to get some self esteem and then see if they still want the fake boobs for themselves or for some guy who just wants big boobs.
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 9:36am PDT
Report AbuseDon't forget that the boob job is cancerous and yes i agree it does jiggle and causes boob defects and finally it also impacts your body posture causing you to have hunch back. Stay flat chested its more graceful and sexy looking....
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 9:39am PDT
Report AbuseI find that that women are often the only ones unhappy with their chest size. I think it can be related to penis size in men in much the same way because while most members of the opposite sex could not care either way, with bigger simply a bonus and really big at times being uncomfortable; most pressure comes from members of the same sex. The only advantage to having bigger breasts is confidence, confidence in yourself around men and around other women. In much the same way the guy who has a big johnson gets extra attention because he exudes confidence, women with big breasts get extra attention because they, too, are confident they have what men want. But it really is only just bragging rights, and big breasts or small, lopsided or perfectly symmetrical, guys just don't care that much.
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 9:42am PDT
Report AbuseI agree with you TJ on this note as well, that if a guy likes a girl for her boobs then he has low self esteem and if the girl gives in to them and gets the boobs done and a bigger boob comes along then what??? YOU SHOULD TELL HIM TO GET A PENIS ENLARGEMENT!!! LOL HAHAHA HE WILL DESERVE THIS SINCE ALL HE SEES YOU FOR IS BOOBS! LOL ALSO, yes they should be natural and not fake since this will show to a guy that you are making changes to please him and this shows you are not confident you can get him.....
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 10:08am PDT
Report AbusePlastic surgery comes with a number of risks that make it hardly worth it. Breast implants will start to sag (usually quicker than real breasts). They can burst (which will make you uneven until you get it fixed). Also, they can turn out badly and then you are stuck looking like that.
The truth is: none of us are ever going to be perfect looking. No one is ever completely happy with how they look. There will always be a zit, some extra weight, or a body part that seems imperfect. My advice would be to stop making comparisons to other people. See yourself for who you really are and accept it. God made you that way for a reason.
A lifetime spent in pursuit of physical perfection is a waste. Start working out your "inner beauty." Cultivate a heart that shows love to others. People will see the beauty within your chest (your heart) and your looks won't seem so important.
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Posted by Wed Aug 12, 2009 10:08am PDT
Report AbuseFrancoise, I just love women...all kinds. I've had huge chests and no chests. Women still just drive me crazy...funny though, lately I've been more interested in the "petite uptop" women lately. And if they're petite? Mmmmmm! They are just so so sexy...just wanna pick them up and run away with them under my arm HAHAHA! Sometimes I crack me up...
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