Love + Sex
Wednesday, December 2, 2009
Do you pee in front of your boyfriend?
partner
Pssst....Do you pee in front of your significant other? My answer
is no! My friends think I'm uptight because I'd never let a dude
anywhere near the bathroom when I pee. I even run the water so you
can't hear anything. And on the few times I've been in the bathroom
when Alex pees, I dissolve into fits of giggles. I know, so
immature. So tell me, dear readers, do you pee in front of your
partner or keep the door closed? I am so curious!
Speaking of bathroom endeavors, after asking you
what surprised you when you moved in together, three readers
came back with very unexpected answers....
- "I cannot poop while he is anywhere near me. I banish him to
the bedroom or living room. It's like stage fright. If I hear
something near the kitchen, I yell, 'I know you're in there and I'm
not going!'" -- psuajblue
(What do women really think about the restroom?)
- "Hahahahaha, totally know what you mean. thankfully, our condo
is 3 stories, and the bathrooms are on the top and bottom
floor...he uses the downstairs one, and i use the upstairs
one...but i'm totally the same way...if i hear him come upstairs,
i'm like 'heeyyyy, whaddya doin'?'....'goooo
awaaaay'....i'm...doing...my..makeup?...." -- daynya
- "Hee, I totally feared the co-habitation pooping scenarios. As
it turns out? We are both 12-year-old boys....We have two
bathrooms, but they share a wall. Sometimes, disgustingly (but
hilariously) I'll hear his voice floating through the wall, '...you
poopin'? Me too!'" -- ladislow
Ha ha! So funny. And, my hilarious readers, let me know: To pee
or not to pee? That is the question.
Related: The 5 laws of living together.
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Posted by shannonb Fri Oct 31, 2008 9:44am PDT
It doesn't bother me to urinate in front of my boyfriend, but when it comes to a BM...no thank you. He cannot be around at all.
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Posted by VR Fri Oct 31, 2008 9:53am PDT
for me its ok to pee infront of my bf. its not that gross.
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Posted by Sara Fri Oct 31, 2008 9:53am PDT
like omgosh!!!
i am the same ways i cant pee in front of my boiifreiend!!! like i dont really have a problem in front of like girlfriends... [not i the nasty way] but yeah...
i wounder what it is? its like peeinginfrontofboyfriendPHOBIA!! lol
so therefor i choose the door to be closed and my boiifriend in a room far far away from the door!!!
lol
~sara~
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Posted by oh my Fri Oct 31, 2008 9:54am PDT
Why does it matter? You share everything else! #1 and #2 are completely natural and, to quote the famous book, EVERYBODY POOPS. What's the big hang up? Your man isn't going to think less of you because you perform normal bodily functions. If he does, he has some serious problems of his own...
Now when it comes to doing these things ON each other...well...THAT is pretty gross... :D
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Posted by Heather Fri Oct 31, 2008 9:57am PDT
when i am in the bathroom that's when it usually seems like he wants to be around me the most ha. i don't mind him in there when i am peeing but for a number two i refuse......
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Posted by Crystal Fri Oct 31, 2008 10:03am PDT
well sometimes i will pee in front of him but only when he is doing something in the restroom and is going to take a long time.
some people arent use to other guys around them so just take your time getting use to it. try something new
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Posted by tori Fri Oct 31, 2008 10:15am PDT
i would but i would never poop i think that is disgusting he'll be in there and you'll bee poopin and he's like what's that smell
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Posted by Jennifer Fri Oct 31, 2008 10:17am PDT
I pee in front of my boyfriend all the time. For some reason, we have the best conversations when one of us is on the toilet :)
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Posted by Phoenix Fri Oct 31, 2008 10:34am PDT
I have no problem with it. When you're both in a rush in the morning to get to work and you're sharing the shower and the sink and everything else, why not? We just both head to the bathroom first thing in the morning and kind of dance around each other trying to get ready. It's pretty funny, actually! I could see some people getting self-conscious, though - nothing wrong with that.
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Posted by blondie Fri Oct 31, 2008 10:48am PDT
I leave the door open, but he can't see me. I usually don't usually drop a duece at home unless he's asleep, but that's just because of our schedules. On the weekend, however, when we're both home, I'll pick up my book and head for the bathroom with a wink and a "Catch on the flip side" thrown in as a joke. He thinks it's great that I can enjoy my poo as much as him. I will say though, if I hear him coming down the hall, I'll swing the door closed even if it's not all the way shut. I don't care if he hears me or even talking to him while I'm peeing, but I've got to keep the mystery of him not seeing me.
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