Yes it’s a survey ladies and I’m strongly asking and begging that you take a few minutes to take this survey to see if you want everlasting or just 24 hours with your future husband. A woman’s character in marriage is key to obviously potential happiness or a possible risk and nothing really quite brings out the red flags in something to be promised and sacred in front of friends in family than a wedding! If you have watched those Bridezilla shows on WE TV you wonder how come these self-centered, crazy b**** are getting men to marry them? But it is acts like these to make me question the perception of marriage by women today that I feel has been totally shifted from the real true reasons of why we should get married. If you ever saw Bridezilla on the WE TV show network you would know why there is less of a shock factor that the rate of divorce of 50%. I’m not saying little bad quirks are the whole reasons but I believe they contribute. Take my survey to see where you stand because if you really want HIM you will know by the end of the survey…but if you really want the WEDDING…well let’s just see if you do shall we…
Please copy and paste the survey with circling the letter of your correct answer in word and then attach it in an email and send it to me at lj2378@gmail.com . I would really appreciate it.
Survey:
1. If you and your fiancé, who has been together for a year, are paying for your own wedding and he wants a low-key wedding, nothing to spectacular because of financial reasons, you are probably going to lean toward…
a. Neglecting every word he says because you want spectacular written all across your big wedding day
b. Take his words into consideration and say okay but go behind his back and spend money he will soon realize about after the big wedding day
c. Decide in what fits the budget still creating something special for you and him or other guest
2. Between the two of you if you both had a savings of a total of 50,000 dollars but had not bought a house yet, which is what you’re looking to do, and is also expecting a baby on the way how much would you give for your wedding?
a. 50% of the 50,000
b. 20% of the 50,000
c. 5% of the 50,000
3. If you had to choose between the three places to get married which would you choose…
a. Five star hotel
b. Marriage and honeymoon all-in-one on out of town for two nights
c. Your parents three acres of backyard
4. If you were on budget and seriously could not stretch it out any further but THE DRESS was a little bit more over the budget and your fiancé forbid you buying it and told you to choose another would you…
a. Buy the dress anyway by any of his financial means somehow someway
b. Secretly get the dress and lie about how much it cost
c. Choose to accept another dress in the budget
5. When planning your wedding what is the number one objective for you…?
a. My way or my way
b. Making it fun and exciting being in the moment
c. Trying to do whatever it takes to get precisely what you want
6. If your mother-in-law and you were at really bad terms with each other, and have been at bad terms since she has met you how would it eventually play out for you come your wedding day?
a. Having your fiancé choose over you and his mother
b. Her not coming to the wedding at all
c. Biting your tongue and being polite anyway for your wedding
7. When it comes to the wedding guest what’s your attitude?
a. For them to cater to you by any means necessary
b. For you all to have fun together
c. Eliminating the first one to get out of line with you
8. If you and your fiancé met at an event held in a school gymnasium and he was adamant about wanting that gym to be the place to marry you how would you react out of the two choices?
a. “A gym, are you kidding?”
b. “I think it so romantic!”
9. On the day of your wedding right where you are about to walk down the aisle, you realize some of your fiancé’s family never mail off their RSVP and now all of a sudden at the same time your wedding is set to start, you have unknown family members of the groom, that could fit two rows, showing up outside. What are you going to do…?
a. Feel like they were rude to not have gotten back in touch with you in order for you to have a seat reserve so if they stand up during the wedding that’s their fault, oh well.
b. Try to stay calm and hold off for a few minutes and make plans to accommodate them and get them seated if all can be seated
c. Go ballistic
10. If the day of your wedding chaos broke out and everybody was dropping out like flies and it was turning into a disaster what would you do…?
a. Go ballistic
