I just watched the movie “Obsession” and I completely disagreed with the main character’s behavior. He’s a married man that was sexually pursued by a psychopathic “temp” coworker and he initially kept the fact from his wife.
So the question is; if you’re in a relationship and someone else makes sexual advances on you, should you tell your partner?
In my opinion, you’re compromising your commitment if you don’t. Consider how your partner might feel if they heard about this through the grapevine? Unless you truly were flirting with this third person or implying your acceptance of their initial sexual advances, then you’re innocent. But I don’t feel you can maintain your innocence or commitment if you keep this secret from your partner.
What do you think?
Wishing everyone a beautiful day!
Peace, Love and Harmony,,, Shawn
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Posted by Thu Aug 27, 2009 5:59pm PDT
Report AbuseTheres no reason not to tell unless your hiding somethingggggggggg!
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Posted by Thu Aug 27, 2009 10:53pm PDT
Report AbuseIf I was in a relationship and that happened I would tell in a heart beat!!! There is no way I would keep that to myself!!! I watched that movie too... that was crazy, but good!!!!!!!
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Posted by Fri Aug 28, 2009 6:06am PDT
Report AbuseMen should think first before they open up their mouth. The lady was deceived by the the married man who told her that if he was single? that means he would have probably felt for her.......... and that is exactly what the lady have at the back of her mind to carry on her mission . it's a good movie though , but one have to let the other patner knows whats going on in this type of situation.
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Posted by Fri Aug 28, 2009 12:12pm PDT
Report AbuseI don't believe in keeping Secrets from your partner I feel like u should tell each other the truth no matter what even if it hurts because why would u want to be in a realtionship full of lies, to lie one time u have to make up a nother lie to go with so I feel that u should always tell the truth
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