Dressing up as a woman for me is emotionally rewarding and very exciting.........

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  Posted by Kat Tue Nov 11, 2008 7:54am PST

  Well, if that's what you're into then good for you. I don't really understand the drive but one time in 8th grade I dressed up as a man for my science project and did enjoy the sense of "concealment" I felt. I think that's the closest I can get to understanding your desire to look like a woman.

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  Posted by T.R. Annie Tue Nov 11, 2008 8:55am PST

  This blog is further emergence from the closet - as I perhaps naively and foolishly now have ventured onto the open Web to express my thoughts about crossdressing/feminization and enjoying dressing and looking somewhat like a woman. Time will tel if I have indeed made a big mistake by opening up but as I dress up as a woman alone and in private I do at this moment feel the need for an outlet to express my musings on being a transvestite.

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  Posted by empressofall Sat Nov 29, 2008 8:33am PST

  i personally have found that the split life and secrecy almost killed me. so i dicided that if i was going to to survive it will be on my terms and by my rules of conduct. im a full time transgendered person,i am an independent paint contractor,a trekkie,a consevative and a mormon! i have given up family,friends,and my past to acheive personal sanity and a sense of self! the road from where you are to where i am is long, difficult, and lonely! it is full of a self examination that that pits your sense of self against a society that does not deal in depth of self,which makes them fearful of the responsibility they owe to thier own inner selves. the end result is that they lay all thier deep dark fantasies at your feet thru the stupid things that come out of thier mouths! i personally feel the pleasure and contentment i derive from living as a woman is worth the trade off and i will endeavor to look to the further femininization where ever i can accomplish it. strength of will is a requirement now that you are in the big wide world,but rest assured,you will find allies in the oddest manners and places. good luck on your adventure!!

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  Posted by Eddie Thu Jan 8, 2009 12:21pm PST

  I also love to dress up as a woman.When i finish work on a Sunday i love to have a hot bath with dove bath cream it makes my skin so soft i then shave so their is no hairs left on my body i then dress up and it usually takes me a good two hours but if i could look as good as you i would be well pleased.you look fantastic.all the best for the future.By the way my name is Rachel when i am a woman.

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  Posted by Helene Wed Jan 21, 2009 11:07am PST

  TR Annie

  I have to say your posting above came as quite a surprise to me as I read it! I think maybe it would be a nice gesture if you wrote to me about it, I'm on: helene_barclay@yahoo.co.uk

  Bye - Helene.

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  Posted by Wally Sun Apr 12, 2009 12:51pm PDT

  Just a thought.

  You know most men cannot understand why a man would enjoy feminizing themselves. For them, cross-dressing is a fate worse than death. It is so horrible that it is against the law to make prisoners of war or prison inmates wear feminine clothes.

  Some estimate that nearly 50% of all males will cross-dress at some time in their lives. However the vast majority of these do it for laughs, to get attention, as a joke or as part of a dare. They get nothing out of it themselves.

  Then there are people like you. About 10% of normal, healthy, heterosexual males will say that the experience of wearing women's clothes gives them a sensation of pleasure. Why? What it going on with these men?

  For reasons not understood, their brains are hard-wired to release neurotransmitters (dopamine and others) when they feminize themselves. These neurotransmitters are powerful chemicals. They produce sensations of well-being, pleasure, sexual gratification and self-identity. They affect the reward centers of your brain, so that means they will mimic the addiction response. You will feel as if you NEED to cross-dress. And you can't stop.. You can't stop your brain from releasing neurotransmitters. You can't stop noticing pretty feminine things.

  The vast majority of men with this condition consider it a problem. They want to be popular with the ladies. They want to get married and have a happy family. The compulsion of self-feminization brings a sense of guilt and shame. So they keep it private, very private, even secret. They place limits over their cross-dressing. That okay. By limiting their cross-dressing they are taking control over their lives. This mimics the addiction response, so you have to control it or it will control you.

  Your brain is producing neurotransmitters which make your body feel pleasure. Your body craves the release of more neurotransmitters, so it instructs you to do more and more to release more neurotransmitters. You feel a drive to do whatever it takes to get the "high". For this reason men have left their spouses, their children, their friends and family, to pursue their first love.

  You need to decide what course your life will take. Do not play the victim.

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  Posted by lbdver Mon May 18, 2009 12:45pm PDT

  Very well put. Too often, this is associated with being homosexual, when in fact no more of men who do this are homsexual than those who do not. In fact, it's almost completely opposite. It is such an infatuation with any thing female or sexy that drives the man to immitate that as much as possible. Most of these men do not have any thoughts of other men. Ideally, they would like a woman who would be into them as a woman as well as as a man. They do enjoy the idea of anyone, male or female finding them to be sexy and attractive. It's a rush of feelings,desires and satisfaction that can't be described.

  Many, continue on to seek a transgender lifestyle and continue to be atracted to women.

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  Posted by Ashley Tue Sep 29, 2009 8:14pm PDT

  I feel the same way as all of you so i totlly understand how you feel. I love being woman in everyway i can be and hopefully one day i will finally have my wish and be the belle of the ball!

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  Posted by GEORGE Thu Oct 29, 2009 5:18am PDT

  Its so nice to know that your not the only one that truely enjoys dressing in female cloths. to dress up when ever im alone but i stll canot go out in public. i dont kn ow how realalistic a look. i guess everything will come in time.pls write me if you have a chance and let me know how you tell your lovedone you have this tendency georgevillegas@hotmail.com

  thankyou

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