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Thursday, September 4, 2008

Erotic Teasing and Sexual Arousal: How Far Would You go?


Once, while taking the Amtrack from New Orleans to Atlanta, I sat across from an attractive woman who was deeply involved in a book she was reading. She was dressed in a flowing, loose fitted casual skirt and a modestly clinging top. The train was air conditioned, and the cool air made it very evident that she was not wearing a bra. I pretended to read the newspaper, but couldn't help sneaking a peek at her erect nipples every chance that I got.

She crossed her legs and inadvertantly hiked her skirt (which I assumed was for comfort). It was then that I noticed that she was not wearing panties. She never looked up from her book, and seemed not to even register that I was even there. But every time she crossed or uncrossed her legs, my eyes were drawn to the area between them as if she was pointing a pistol in my direction. I was never able to get a perfect view, but it was alays just enough to hold me to that seat. I didn't even want to get up to go to the restroom. 

During the entire trip we rarely spoke, just smiled at each other occasionally, but I found the whole experience to be one of the most erotic of my life. When we arrived in Atlanta, I wnated to ask her out, but couldn't even find the words for simple conversation. In the end, she went her way and I went mine. 

This made me curious...

1. Do women always know when when they've stimulated the ultimate arousal, or are some women just comfortable being that sexy?
 
2. Have any of you played the arousal or tease game, and if so, what was the outcome?

3. What is the most outragously erotic thing you've ever done to catch someone's attention?

Note: This blog was originally posted in May, but due to recently rediscovering a strong fascination with "teasing", I was curious whether others shared my interest.

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  • MuNkEY GuRL's Avatar
    Posted by MuNkEY GuRL Tue Jul 15, 2008 11:48am PDT

    I bmx as dose a guy i liked, one day he asked me to go rideing just the two of us. I went in a mini skirt and tank top, so everytime i jumped my bike my skirt went up, It ended up being one of the best rides of my life,

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  • AR's Avatar
    Posted by AR Tue Jul 15, 2008 12:52pm PDT

    1. Do women always know when when they've stimulated the ultimate arousal, or are some women just comfortable being that sexy? Yes we know and we like it PLUS it makes us even the more comfortable.

    2. Have any of you played the arousal or tease game, and if so, what was the outcome? All the time. Outcome was attention.

    3. What is the most outragously erotic thing you've ever done to catch someone's attention? Play with myself while he watched and not allow him join in. HA!

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  • J617angel's Avatar
    Posted by J617angel Tue Jul 15, 2008 1:32pm PDT

    I was down in florida on a trip for choir, we had gone to a party, I had on a pretty short dress, my shoes were hurting my feet, because we had just been at universal studios walking, in shoes that were not broke in at all. I complained a little and a guy named Jason gave me a piggy back ride, my a$$ was hanging out thong and all, because of how short the dress was, he brought this to my attention and I just told him I didn't care. Most of the guys in choir saw what "my mama gave me" Nothing really happened, except a good time, I was having so much fun I felt like I was drunk! That was a pretty flirtatious trip, not sure if all the attention was because of my a$$ or not.

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  • Ann's Avatar
    Posted by Ann Wed Jul 16, 2008 3:58am PDT

    I don't think we always know it, most of the time yes. Once I was dinning at a restaurant bar and the top buttons of my shirt came undone without me knowing, but I quickly figured it out when I started receiving more direct eye contact from the males around me. When we wear a short skirt or a low cut neck line and bend over in front of you, yea, we know it. The most outrageous thing, I guess was when I put on a white underwear, a white pleated skirt, a push up bra and a tight fuzzy sweater and started innocently jumping up and down on the bed with some fun girl band playing in the back ground. My boyfriend was in the bathroom getting ready for a night out with 'boys'. He came out of the bathroom and I was just mindlessly jumping and dancing around on the bed, skirt flying up here and there. I noticed when he stood at the door glancing my way and then at the door. Yea, it worked, I got my night in with the 'boy'!

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  • MochaMama42's Avatar
    Posted by MochaMama42 Wed Jul 16, 2008 8:57am PDT

    Here's a funny story:

    Because I am a divorced parent, on saturdays, I take my son to get his mohawk shaped up. The shop I take him to has about 12 or so barbers in 2 long rows on either side of the shop. When we went this past saturday, I wore a sundress, not see-through, not billowy, not a mini-skirt...Nothing that I would have thought would have warranted comment. I waited about an hour for my son, and after we left, the barber who cuts my sons hair called about 12 minutes later. He said that I had caused quite a stir in the shop and that was why all the barbers were so quiet and in awe. I told him that the next time I bring my son, I would be sure and wear FLANNEL and a HOODIE with jeans and Timberlands as to not cause problems. We had a good laugh, however, to be honest I was shocked. I didn't think I was that "enticing" and really wasn't trying to be! lol

    I think that scenario proves that many times, because men are so visual , they are easily aroused. I don't think that's a bad thing, I think that is just how men are wired. And hey, it did secretly make my day! ;D

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  • beadedbutterfly's Avatar
    Posted by beadedbutterfly Wed Jul 16, 2008 1:45pm PDT

    Women definetly can do pretty much anything sexually to arouse a guy so long as your attention is on getting his. I describe myself as a very sexual person, I'm into role playing and dressing up for my man. There have been numerous times I've dressed up in sexy outfits for my man and gave him some "dances" to arouse him. Our sex life is very very hot!!! I think men are easily aroused, I mean if all it takes is just a sexy outfit every now and then, how easy is that??

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  • claudiamoore1985's Avatar
    Posted by claudiamoore1985 Thu Jul 17, 2008 1:18pm PDT

    . Do women always know when when they've stimulated the ultimate arousal, or are some women just comfortable being that sexy?

    Yes I always know when I arouse a man. To me and my cousin it is fun and we have turned it into a game to see how many men we can get in a day or evening out!!

    2. Have any of you played the arousal or tease game, and if so, what was the outcome?

    Like I said it is a game for me to tease. when I feel down or depressed, I set out to flirt and tease until I get what I want Usually attention maybe more

    3. What is the most outragously erotic thing you've ever done to catch someone's attention?

    I went to a beach and it was pretty deserted except by a couple of men. When I noticed them watching discreetly I started to strip off my clothing down to my string bikini.

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  • crazEgurl's Avatar
    Posted by crazEgurl Fri Jul 18, 2008 9:19am PDT

    Well, I'm easily aroused myself sometimes. I work with a lot of men, most of which I wouldn't give the time of day. There are a few, though, that I don't mind catching the attention of. I LOVE to wear these cream stretchy slacks with no underwear and a slightly low cut shirt. Nothing slutty but just enough. Today, for the first time, I'm wearing a skirt and heels. The skirt is cream and I'm not wearing any underwear and I feel so damn sexy. I sit here with my legs crossed and my skirt hiked just enough to catch attention and not enough to show anything and the second glances I get out of the corner of my eye drive me crazy. AND a little breeze up my skirt and I'm ready to run to the bathroom and take care of business!!! I love being sexy and I love knowing that I make men hot for it. I think it's something most women like, but they just won't admit. Married or not, it's fun and can't do anything but help your love life at home!

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  • jessicatastrophe_70x7's Avatar
    Posted by jessicatastrophe_70x7 Thu Jul 31, 2008 3:37pm PDT

    3. yeaahhh lol i dressed -down- in a skirt(he loves my legs), and a button up shirt with nothing underneath and just a few buttons unbuttoned. he came over and saw me sitting with my legs crossed waiting for him and it took about 5 seconds for him to remove that shirt. haha

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