Etiquette for a Destination Wedding Reception

By Heather Grenier

Etiquette for a destination wedding reception is similar and different to the etiquette of a standard wedding reception. Follow all wedding etiquette as if you were attending a regular wedding reception. Then, add in these few exceptions to ensure you are following proper etiquette for a destination wedding reception.

Money
Money is a large part of destination weddings. Couples recognize some of their guests may not be able to attend due to the expense. Etiquette for a destination wedding reception dictates that the guests pay for everything unless otherwise specified by the couple. They will likely specify this on the wedding invitations. For instance, some couples may indicate that flights or lodging are being provided by the couple. Read the invitation carefully, and be prepared to use your own money for expenses.

Their Time
While you may be taking time off to attend the destination wedding, etiquette for a destination wedding reception precludes that you are there on the couple's time. This means that you need to be available when the couple expects you to be there. This means making sure your flight arrangements allow you to be there before any of the festivities start. You must also be on time for any wedding-related activities regardless of any non-wedding-related activities you would prefer to take part in.

Your Time
The couple will understand that this is a vacation for you as well, and there will be some down time between wedding events. It is important that you schedule your own activities in advance so that they do not interfere with the planned wedding events. This means making reservations for any special activities or meals that you want to experience while on your trip.

Gifts
It should be mentioned that wedding gifts are expected at any wedding. However, when attending a destination wedding, the etiquette is slightly different. If the couple is paying a large sum for your trip to the wedding, then a larger gift is proper etiquette. If you are responsible for more of your trip, then the couple may not expect anything more than a card and your well wishes. A small monetary gift may be appropriate.

Etiquette for a Destination Wedding Reception originally published on Travels.com

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About the Author:
Heather Grenier is a freelance writer that thrives on sharing her experience with others. She is a wife and mother above all else.