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Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Flirting 101: 5 Ways to Send a Racy E-mail

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E-mail was basically created to flirt. Also to leave evidence for those investigating corruption or infidelity, sure. But primarily to flirt…

There are about a thousand ways to say, “Man I’d like to lick your face but I have to be more coy right now,” on e-mail. But here are five ways that have always worked on me. All of them are a little sexual. And all of them are a little transparent. But remember, the point of flirting is to be a little transparent.

5. Say, “I had a dream about you last night.”
Guys love the idea that you’re dreaming about them. Obviously you don’t have to have had a dream about the person. And you can say it to guys you’re not even dating yet. It’s intimate, it’s weird and sexy and subliminal, and the first thing people think about is “sex dream.”

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4. Say, “I’m wearing something you’d like.”
This is a variation on an old standby: “What are you wearing?” Only this one gets our imaginations going. And if you want to get us going further, don’t let us know what it is!

3. Send a picture of yourself.
This has most successfully been done under some kind of guise. Like, “Check out my new glasses,” or “Do I look tired,” or “Don’t I look good wearing nothing but a riding crop between my teeth.” (Kidding.) But make sure you look good.

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2. Forward a flirty e-mail you got from someone else.
Makes us jealous. But tease us, and let us know it’s not too threatening. “You’re better at this than he is,” when you forward a flirty e-mail is a good way of doing that.

1. Write this:
“Settle a dispute for me; there’s an argument raging in my office about men’s favorite porn genre, what do you think it is?” Or it can be a dispute about the best method of doing whatever sexual act. The point is that you’re talking about something racy. And when a guy associates you with something racy, it’s a very good thing as far as keeping him thinking about you goes.

What are your flirty e-mail secrets? Anything that works? Anything that totally crashed and burned?

Plus, check out more on flirting via text message, Gchat, Facebook and more!

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  • KANDICE's Avatar
    Posted by KANDICE Wed May 13, 2009 5:39pm PDT

    any suggestions from anyone about findin love,friendship,or just sumone to talk to

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  • Amberla's Avatar
    Posted by Amberla Wed May 13, 2009 8:19pm PDT

    WTF, any way to stop these spammers??????

    Good tips for the flirty emails :)

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Thu May 14, 2009 5:55am PDT

    Hey I like flirting with women who are complete strangers, in a harmless and somewhat ego lifting sorta way....But then I like graveyards at midnight and thunderstorms......

    Hell I don't even care if the person is complete Bull$hit. In fact who knows, maybe I'm flirting with an ex-girlfriend or even a guy. WHO FU*KING CARES???? I have fun doing it.......

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  • None's Avatar
    Posted by None Thu May 14, 2009 8:03am PDT

    “Don’t I look good wearing nothing but a riding crop between my teeth.” HUH! LOL!!!!???? Yippe Ki Ya! YEE HAW WHOOSH WHIP CRACKS LOL!!!!

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  • Doktor Eevol's Avatar
    Posted by Doktor Eevol Thu May 14, 2009 3:39pm PDT

    LoL None!

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  • Rebecca G's Avatar
    Posted by Rebecca G Fri May 15, 2009 4:46am PDT

    i simply say " I'm horny, wanna fuk"

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  • KittyKat's Avatar
    Posted by KittyKat Fri May 15, 2009 5:35am PDT

    What me and my man did was one time we sent a story book about us having sex. I would talk about what I would do to him and then leave the last sentence unfinished and he would finish it and he would leave the last sentence unfinished and we would continue down till we got finished having sex. It was such a turn-on.

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  • Steph's Avatar
    Posted by Steph Fri May 15, 2009 5:51am PDT

    i usually just say something like 'ive been very very naughty today and im waiting for you to come punish me, and treat me the way bad girls deserve to be treated...' works everytime haha

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  • None's Avatar
    Posted by None Fri May 15, 2009 9:03am PDT

    Hey Doktor!! See ya girl LOL!! Some of these posts man can you believe them!?

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  • 's Avatar
    Posted by Fri May 15, 2009 12:53pm PDT

    Love is hate

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