for richer or for poorer, in sickness and in health....those are
the vows you take when you get married...
but really..are these just words you repeat without really meaning
them? It sure seems like it to me.
Is a woman justified to go looking for another person, when the
husband has put them in financial jeopardy - losing all their money
(and not listening to her concerns and wishes in the
process)?. For richer or for poorer...
How about another lady that has just separated from her
husband...tired of dealing with her husband's unemployed state
after having a nervous breakdown a few years ago? Once upon a
time that same husband paid and put her through college for a
master's degree, but now when things are so flipped around, is
it okay to part ways? For better or for worse...
The first case, I can understand the motives of the gal, as she is
looking for financial/future security, where her husband has blown
it. Still, people make mistakes and he made one...is it right
for her to abandom him for this? The second case seems
like another abandonment story...it just makes me wonder, what/how
are people like when things are at their toughest...can they
endure? Are they justified to leave their union? Are
these vows empty words?
For Better or for worse....
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Posted by Fri Jun 19, 2009 4:34pm PDT
Report Abusehi sweetie its me i feel that you really loved him younwould take those vows and keep them b ut make sure you know him enough and you both are inlove with each other would you forgive if a parenter cheated i dont feel i cant
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Posted by Fri Jun 19, 2009 10:41pm PDT
Report AbuseWow.. that's pretty intense. I have never been married.. I have, however, been engaged. I would love to say that I do not believe in divorce, but I can not say that and 100% believe it. I do believe there are very few reasons to get a divorce. I don't know if you are a religious person, but the Bible says there are only two reasons that a couple may be unbound from their wedding vows.. fornication and death.
I think the best thing that you can do is follow your heart. In my opinion, there are more than just those two reasons to get a divorce.. IF and only if you have given SAVING your marriage a good, hard fight! You do what you can to try and fix it, but if the fight to save the marriage is only coming from one side, then there is only so much you can do.
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Posted by Sun Jun 21, 2009 1:55am PDT
Report AbuseWELL I THINK I'LL GET BACK TO ORIGINAL TOPIC. I TOOK THOSE SAME VOWS AND MEANT THEM WITH EVERY FIBER IN MY BEING ONLT TO FIND OUT MY SO CALLRD HUSBAND DIDN'T MEAN NOT ONE WORD. IN FACT, HE TAUNTS ME TELLING ME HOW HE'S ALREADY BEEN PLANNUNG AN OUT. HE'S PLANNED BEFORE HE MARRIED ME. HE SAYS HE HAS ANOTHER WOMAN HE PLANS TO BE WITH THAT IS GOING TO REPLACE ME AS MOTHER OF OUR 6 MONTH OLD BABY GIRL.
OUR DAUGHTER IS ONE OF THE MOST PERFECT BABBIES YOU COULD EVER MEET. PF ANYONE NEEDS TO BE REPLACED IT WOULD BE HIM. TONIGHT HE DECIDED TO KNOCK ME AROUND AGAIN CAUSE IT MAKES HIM FEEL LIKE A REAL BUG MAN I GUESS. I REALLY COULD USE A GOOD FRIEND TO HELP ME THINK THINGS OUT. A FRIEND WHO KNOWS A LITTLE ABOUT TRIBAL LAW AND INDIAN WELFARE ACT ON CHILDREN. I AM AFRAID HE IS GOING TO TRY TO TAKE MY LITTLE GIRL FROM ME. I HAD C.P.S. SHOW UP ON MY DOOR STEP 2 WEEKS AGO SAYING THERE WAS REPORTS FILED ON MY HUSBAND IN 2004 REGAURDING HIS THREE OTHER DSUGHTERS THAT HE HAD MOLESTED THEM. HE DOES NOT DENY MOLESTING HIS YOUNGEST TO ME. I DON'T KNOW EXACT DETAILS. HE HAS MADE SURE THE POLICE THINK I AM LYING TO THEM ABOUT HIM. HE HAS ACTUALLY STADGED OUT SITUATIONS THAT MADE ME APPEAR TO SEEM CRAZY TO ME. HE KNOWS ME TOO WELL.HE IS A MANIPULATOR EXTRODANIER SELF PROCLAIMEND BUT WITNESSED AND BACKED UP BY ME. ANYWAY DO YOU THINK YOU HAVE THE POWER TO FIX AN INJUSTICE GET BACK WITH ME AT CAROLYNSAFRAID@YAHOO.COM
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