- I just want to start off by saying its hard. Its hard as hell. I know especially for me cause I have people all around me who have had sex and is still having sex and Im not. Im like the odd man out. I honestly dont mind though :). Im proud at those times where I can say that i aint no hoe and Im waiting for the right guy (my husband hopefully) to come along and when I feel its right with him, hopefully he can deflower me.
- I always kid with my friends and say Im actually going to be a 40 yr old virgin. They think I be playin' , but honestly Im not. I cant just lay down with any guy I just think is hot or just attractive to me, I need more then that.
- Some of us 'actually' need love. That real
kind of love where you dont need yo' man to say it type love.
He shows it in his actions. He dont pressure you because he
know that that waiting is going to be worth wild and you know it
to.
- dare i ask does anyone agree with me? If not I would still like to hear what u have to say, each is to its own :).
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- But you know something else, I think girls like us are truely
special (the ones that are real virgins)
- But you know something else, I think girls like us are truely
special (the ones that are real virgins)
FOR MY GIRLS STILL HOLDING THAT V- CARD LIKE ME.
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Posted by Wed May 13, 2009 7:49am PDT
Report Abusethose of the ones that are virgins is the ones that are being saved of catching anything, like me people be trying to have me lose my v-card and i be like "no" i say no because I know all of the risks their are in having sex, especially at a young age.
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Posted by Fri May 15, 2009 1:41am PDT
Report Abusewell, i think it's cool still holding that v-card.i am also holding it at the age of 22 so i would like to ask: is it healthy or should i say, is it normal? the thing is i want to lose it... please help
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Posted by Sat May 16, 2009 8:57am PDT
Report Abusethanks you guys for posting comments:)
but as for you the 22 year old Idk, I really should be asking you for help because me Im only 18. I have never had sex for two reasons. One: I have'nt found the right guy yet(my hubby) and Two I dont want to catch nothing from nobody because now adays' you cant trust no one. As far as it being normal well I guess, well I think we are the normal ones. All these years we have'nt sadly fallen under peer pressure like the weak ones (our peers/friends). But you know something else, Im not afraid to say Im scared. Im scared as hell, I guess that would be my third reason for not having sex. But Im okay with that though, because my being scared just helps me not go out and do the wrong thing, that thing in my mind that aint right(at least now).
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Posted by Wed May 27, 2009 8:37am PDT
Report Abusei dont regret having sex with my boyfriend at all i just wish i would have waited alittle longer than i did. but i dont regret it because i do love him but if i could go back i would not have. its nothing against him its me.
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Posted by Wed May 27, 2009 7:34pm PDT
Report AbuseI complete agree with you. Love should be more than just sex. I am still a virgin too and I hope to wait until I get married.
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Posted by Thu May 28, 2009 8:07am PDT
Report AbuseI know its been so hard as ever. I was just to be put in a situation where this guy (if I would have went on a date with this guy)he would of pressure me to have sex. He was acually my dream guy but he just met me a week agao, there is a big age differece, he dont know me and I know for a fact that he dont love me. So..... Im really glad that didnt happen cause I know for a fact that I would have slipped up and regreted it later on.Because Im trying to save myself for my husband, where evr he at. :)
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Posted by Sat Aug 8, 2009 2:54am PDT
Report Abusei completly agree im a virgin for a couple of reasons there isnt anyone i feel comfortable enough with anyone and im scared i dont know what to do!(HELP)there are other reasons but im not going to go on about it
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Posted by Sat Aug 8, 2009 2:55am PDT
Report Abusei completly agree im a virgin for a couple of reasons there isnt anyone i feel comfortable enough with anyone and im scared i dont know what to do!(HELP)there are other reasons but im not going to go on about it
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Posted by Sun Aug 9, 2009 9:26pm PDT
Report AbuseI agree w/ u girls. I'm 18 and still have my V-card. I'm waiting til marriage to lose it. All of my friends are not virgins, so I know how you feel Future Ms.Cena (by the way I LOVE wrestling 2; I watch it everyday.) I feel weird talking to my friends about this bcuz, #1: I'm shy; #2 I'm scared of catching something & scared in general; #3, I don't want to get pregnant, #4, I've never had a boyfriend, which I think is sad. :( I'm waiting for the right guy to come along, no matter what race he is.
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Posted by Fri Aug 14, 2009 7:21am PDT
Report AbuseFirst off I want to say to UNDERTAKERHARDY18 ur officially my new bf. Any girl who loves wrestling is definatly a friend of mine. I watch it every day too:). But yeah to me there are many reason why I dont have sex and everything you guys said is exactly why. Besides me not finding the right guy yet, its mainly because Im just scared. I admit Im scared as hell. I never had a boyfriend either, I dont consider it sad though I just look at it as why be with a guy that you know for a fact you wont be with for the rest of your lives. Some girls go from guy to guy, but me I cant do that because I love to hard. And with every guy you were to break up with thats like your heart getting broken over and over, me, I cant dont it. And then just to look back and say I gave my virginity to that guy, what the hell was I thinking. NO. Its smart girls like us who choose to wait and I dont know about yall but Im willing to wait how ever long it takes.
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