Grrrr.... Complicated situations seem to follow me...

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  Posted by The Tedster Fri Nov 6, 2009 11:28pm PST

  How is joining the Navy going to help this? Just fess up and tell him (or have someone else tell him) how you feel. And why can't you talk to him? This needs more info.

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  Posted by Cher Fri Nov 6, 2009 11:56pm PST

  I'm not joining the Navy because of this... it just wound up happening at the same time... and as I said, he's facing misdemeanor charges - he can only avoid them by avoiding the people who stressed him out enough to have him act (I really don't know exactly what he did) until he is done with therapy - to prove that he doesn't have anger management issues I guess (?) honestly the ruling and what little I have gathered make no sense... but all I know is he can't talk to me and I just came to this realization... by the time he gets out of therapy I may well be in basics or otherwise unable to tell him... and as far as having someone else tell him... even then, what can be done about it? he still isn't allowed to talk to me...

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  Posted by TJ S Sun Nov 8, 2009 12:36pm PST

  Sorry but I'm not sure what you think this is going to do for you or him? If you tell him and then are out of the picture because of your enlistment, what good is this going to do for either of you? And why did it take him getting into this bad situation and criminal charges for whatever for you to all of a sudden "figure out" that you had feelings? Are you just feeling guilty maybe? I just think you telling him this after the fact, and then all of a sudden leaving does nothing and won't do him any good.

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