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Sunday, December 6, 2009

Have You Ever Faked an Orgasm?

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I remember talking to a friend of mine years ago who told me that she'd never had an orgasm with a man — but that she almost always faked it. It really surprised me because she seemed otherwise like a take-charge kind of woman — confident, beautiful, and certainly not shy. I didn't understand why she'd feel the pressure! (She was an actress, though, so I guess that kind of makes sense.) Most of us are not actresses, or not good ones anyway, and it doesn't make a lot of sense to me to pretend your significant other is doing something right if he's not. Isn't faking something you'd just have to keep doing? And then if you stopped, he'd wonder why whatever he was doing before no longer worked? Have you ever faked an orgasm?  Comment below or take our poll here.

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  • Mag's Avatar
    Posted by Mag Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:20am PDT

    Is this a 'trick' question?

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  • ♥ Aly2Ari ♥'s Avatar
    Posted by ♥ Aly2Ari ♥ Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:31am PDT

    TGIF

    LMAO..... WHAT GIRL HASN'T AT LEAST ONCE IN THERE LIFE...

    HAVE A GREAT DAY

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  • Big Daddy Shawn's Avatar
    Posted by Big Daddy Shawn Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:36am PDT

    I believe I can speak for most men. If your sex partener does not tell you what she likes how are you to know what you are doing wrong! Communication is the key. Most of us men are stupid. Wouldnt you agree?

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  • Laura's Avatar
    Posted by Laura Fri Aug 28, 2009 8:37am PDT

    Yes, sometimes it's just not going to happen and that is the only way I can get him to stop so I can go to sleep.

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