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Wednesday, October 15, 2008

Heidi Fleiss' ill-fated stud farm and other tales from the new HBO documentary

Editor’s Note: The following is from a conversation Lily Tomlin and I had with HBO Executive producer Sheila Nevins on the making of "Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal." Demystifying the notorious “Hollywood Madam,” the exclusive HBO documentary chronicles her ill-fated attempt to launch “Heidi’s Stud Farm” when it debuts Monday, July 21 (9 PM - 10:10 PM, ET/PT), exclusively on HBO. This film is part of the HBO Documentary Films summer series, which features a provocative new film every Monday night at 9PM through August 25.

LIZ: As the executive producer of world famous documentaries seen on HBO, why in the world did you choose a madam for your subject on television? And I am talking about Heidi Fleiss.

SHEILA: I had always been a fan of Nick Broomfield’s documentary on Heidi, which is now about ten years old. But I always wondered what happened to Heidi and I decided to find out. So I tracked her down to a lingerie shop in downtown Hollywood and that’s where I met Heidi about two or two-and-a-half years ago. She was fascinating. I never met a creature like that before. I never met anybody who was so wicked and at the same time wise.

Click here for a sneak preview of "Heidi Fleiss: The Would-Be Madam of Crystal."

LIZ: Yeah.

SHEILA: I thought if you were a bad girl, you’re bad all over. And if you were a business woman or a smart girl, you were smart all over. And I had never seen a contrast like Heidi. There are so many facets of her character and I identified with her also as a woman. And I wanted to find out about her. I wanted to know where she was at.

LIZ: My very vague remembrance is that my heart sort of went out to her and I felt I was on her side. I’m not much for seeing people put in jail for prostitution. And then she would not reveal the names of the men in her little black book.

SHEILA: Never has. It’s a kind of prostitution McCarthyism in the sense that she wouldn’t give names. And won’t. And doesn’t.

LIZ: OK. So let’s establish for people who don’t know about Heidi Fleiss, that in 1993 she went to prison on charges of money laundering, tax evasion, drug possession. And they gave her a term of 37 months. Am I correct in that?

SHEILA: That’s correct. Of which she served three years.

LIZ: They didn’t specifically charge her with prostitution …

SHEILA: Right.

LIZ: … though prostitution is illegal in California, isn’t it?

SHEILA: Yes.

LIZ: But it’s not illegal in Nevada?

SHEILA: Nope.

LIZ: OK.

SHEILA: Which is where Heidi now lives. She lives in Nevada

LIZ: Sheila, let me just ask you a hypothetical. Why do they always punish prostitutes and they very seldom punish the johns, or the men, who are doing business with them, Mr. Ordinary Joe? And, except for the governor of New York State, Eliot Spitzer, who seems like he came off worse than the women accusing him, why do they do this? Why do men escape the opprobrium of prostitution, since men are the purchasers of prostitution?

SHEILA: I don’t really know why. My heart went out to her, like you said — that thing about your heart going out to Heidi. Yet she’s not bitter. She’s, unfortunately, drugged a lot of the time. She uses substances and she admits it in the film. And she really needs to be rehabilitated. But some of my best friends have that problem. I mean, there was Heidi the sober woman in a nice Armani suit talking about business and doing things; and then there was Heidi the drug addict. And then there was Heidi the environmentalist and the bird lover.

LILY: That whole bird metaphor was just so incredible.

LIZ: We need to explain the birds.

SHEILA: Go ahead and do it.

LIZ: Heidi moves to Nevada and she buys property next to a very old lady, who is described as a madam. And the old lady collects these rare, fabulous cockatoos and cockatiels and wonderful birds that talk. Heidi becomes involved with these birds and when the woman dies, she’s left the birds and she goes on to care for them in a really exaggerated, wonderful way. That’s what Lily means by the birds being a metaphor.

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  • Cheri B's Avatar
    Posted by Cheri B Fri Jul 18, 2008 10:42am PDT

    I never watched Sex in the City on HBO. Infact I saw the movie first when it came out with a couple of girlfriends. I was hooked. Since then I have seen all the episodes thru season six and loved them. What great women they are.

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  • mwaqarvu's Avatar
    Posted by mwaqarvu Fri Jul 18, 2008 11:18am PDT

    u r very beautiful . and i want to see in reality

    please send me some your pictures

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  • urassismine2's Avatar
    Posted by urassismine2 Fri Jul 18, 2008 12:31pm PDT

    Alright, this just needs to be said by someone. Heidi Fleiss is not cute, at all. She is not sexy. She doesn't have a great body epic, and the boney parts of her frame are easily imaginable. Her mouthy smile is quite gummy, and her seedy drop down to an even further level, with these new charges, resonates her low points of life. She is not humorous to any man. She seems pitifully unhappy with her tenet to the other side of life, an she should better serve every woman, as to how life can become, if given the terrible choices. She is an admitted doper, who is all over the meth drug environment, and she's not even trying any recovery. Her character is of very low caliber, as represented by those huge legal fees that she has paid. It absolutely mystifies me, as to how anyone would utilize this individual in any objective scheme to draw any kind of reference to what a woman should, could, or would want to be about on any subjective level. The guys who became embroiled in her past life as a madam were ridiculous examples of what we in America can dress in a suit and tie. Why someone allows her to remain in the light of mainstream media is beyond me. Please, bring back Xiavier Hollander, because at least she did it with class.

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  • kitty's Avatar
    Posted by kitty Sat Jul 19, 2008 12:16am PDT

    HEIDI ,I WOULD 2 MEET U.I ADMIRE U.UR GREAT FOR THE WOMAN AND MEN GENERATION..WOULD U BE SO THANKFUL 2 SEND ME AN AUTOGRAPH T OR PICTURE.I ADMIRE U SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO MUCH.I LUV U .

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  • lamarwashington22's Avatar
    Posted by lamarwashington22 Sun Jul 20, 2008 10:43am PDT

    Mrs.Fleiss my name is BiGHom1E from Los Angeles CA. Im 28 & was wonderin how might I be able 2 get a foot in ur Farm so if could send me the DO's & DON'Ts & any other requirements I'll very much appreciate tha info. Thank You Kindly, Lamar Washington (BiGHom1E)

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  • godwin.duru's Avatar
    Posted by godwin.duru Sun Jul 20, 2008 4:05pm PDT

    I am from Nigeria. I am 50. I want woman of 35 to 45 from America or Europe for relationship. My name is Godwin.

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  • kiratjas854's Avatar
    Posted by kiratjas854 Mon Jul 21, 2008 3:14am PDT

    i want good friend

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  • gambalor69's Avatar
    Posted by gambalor69 Mon Jul 21, 2008 7:14pm PDT

    just watched this documentary...geez...what a train wreck!!

    hate to say it, but she'll be dead within the next couple of years.

    the crystal meth has really taken a toll.

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  • cutie's Avatar
    Posted by cutie Wed Aug 20, 2008 2:24am PDT

    Hey everyone,whats happening on this web.can anyone please enlighten me?

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