Help!! I'm at the end of my rope!!!

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  Posted by jax.rebel Thu Aug 28, 2008 8:24am PDT

  Do you have to us up so much space for one stupid problem? Are you alway's this stupid or is this a one shot deal?

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  Posted by mom of 3 Thu Aug 28, 2008 8:29am PDT

  you hit the nail on the head... she is uber insecure!! take her ass to Maury! he specializes in lie detector episodes! the next time he accuses you of a email or ecard, 1. demand to see it, 2. have the IP traced, 3. throw it in her face... the fact that she is causing such a rift that he is pulling away from his daughter should be a huge red flag to him, maybe you all should seek couseling or mediation...good luck!

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  Posted by siri Thu Aug 28, 2008 8:35am PDT

  first of all you sound pretty upset over all of this and seem to be trying to clear your name. your right you shouldn't have to defend yourself. and your right he should know you better than this. so, why is he believing her? and not to worry, time will sort everything out. in the meantime continue to give your daughter the phone when he calls and if you do need to contact him do so. that is your daughter's father. you have every right.

  if for whatever reasons he doesn't contact you or your daughter leave it alone. that's his decision, no one else's. she nor anyone can stop a parent from seeing or hearing from their child. so long as he is supporting her financially, if he doesn't want to see her, it's sadly his choice. really there's nothing anyone could do to fix that.

  don't allow this woman to get to you however, she can't make your ex stop seeing his daughter, that's ultimately up to him.

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  Posted by Angie Thu Aug 28, 2008 8:45am PDT

  JAX.REBEL..

  Thanks for the rude comment. My concern is for my daughter and how to eliminate this situation. If you dont like the post.. Move on!! Sorry I wasted "YOUR" time..

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  Posted by C Thu Aug 28, 2008 8:46am PDT

  I have had more than my fair share of Crazy people in my life. You are exactly right, she is insecure! I would also consider maybe she is jealous of your child, daddy's and daughters have a very special bond and maybe she feels threatened by that. She may also feel threatened by you, you and he will always have a bond (your child) that will never go away no matter if you like each other or hate each other. I personally would keep doing what your doing, don't talk to him or her unless it has to do with your child. He will eventually see what is going on, and if he doesn't it's his world, let him deal with the drama! I would do every thing to encourage your daughter to see, talk and do things with her dad and make sure she know's she is loved and this has nothing to do with her. As a single mom that's all you can do! My kid's dad has done that to my boys on more than one occasion, all I can do is make sure they know I love them unconditionally and give them an outlet to vent about how they feel! Just remember your child is the most important part of this and you need to keep her as far away from the drama as possiable so she doesn't feel like this is her fault!

  Good luck and best wishes

  Ciara

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  Posted by Amanda Thu Aug 28, 2008 9:02am PDT

  Geez!! All the rude comments, listen YOU don't need medication, obviously his girlfriend does...

  I can't believe someone actually said that to you .. lol,that is so insane.

  Obviously we've pretty much found out that she IS insecure, and feels like a part of him still loves you so she's trying to get rid of you.

  Just do what you're doing, and like momof3 is pretty much right except that you all need medication, (which you don't.)

  Have fun...

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  Posted by Lashara Thu Aug 28, 2008 9:48am PDT

  My advice is to forget about low life people they try and drag people like you down all the time so don't let her win!!! She's jealous and miserable and that's what haters do hate. As long as your daughter is fine that's all you should be worried about. You know you better than that girl!!!!!

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  Posted by springtime Thu Aug 28, 2008 11:11am PDT

  I believe he does believe you. He knows your behavorial patterns too well. Although she is as crazy as a bed bug, he doesn't want her to go off on a tangent with him so he allows her to rag on. I'm not that familiar with the law, but I do know it's against the law for someone to assume your identity and with the intent to defame your good name. You might want to have a talk with your ex about that. You can have proof of that if you can print or save her blogs. Meanwhile, just make certain all is well with your child snd her realtionship with her dad.

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  Posted by pawpee Thu Aug 28, 2008 2:28pm PDT

  one thing for sure: his current girlfrined is jealous not only to the relationship that your daughter and his father (w/c is ur former bf) is having right now, but maybe for the relationship that you've had with your ex. Just let her do what she wants. Dont dwell on the nega things that shes done just to destroy your name bot onyl to your ex but to all your frnds as well..You have all the time to prove to all of them that you are not the person shes trying to put on everybodys mind. Just continue taking care of your daughter, if there is a thing that you need to discuss with your ex,then contact him. He should be involved in everything when it comes to your daughter.

  -pawpee

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  Posted by Megdelana Thu Aug 28, 2008 3:03pm PDT

  In my expirence things happen for a reason but why should you care what she has to say about you? If you're happy somewhere else what should it matter if she is saying these things in her blog? You are doing exsactly what she wants you to do... getting upset. Laugh about it, she has issues, she has to make herself feel better by trash talking you. As for keeping him away from his daughter... He is the only one that can choose to continue seeing her. If he lets relationship problems with you or her stop him from seeing her well, he doesn't deserve to see his daughter.

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