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Wednesday, February 10, 2010

High Heels: The Obsession and Satisfaction.


Ever wondered why shoes do it for you? It’s a natural instinct really, primal and basic; today it is also scientific. I’ve looked deeper at the ‘scientific’ aspect to it which essentially is something otherwise almost primal.


Footwear, women and the obsession goes back thousands of years ago. The Chinese women had a peculiar obsession with footbinding. No one really knew why and many reasons were given, of them for purely sexual reasons, erotic appeal and to even say quote “If her feet were not bound, she would be as strong as her husband”. Thats certainly not my quote!

Men aren't aroused by their feet, they could be tickled but that’s it. Women on the other hand can be aroused. No you say? Its because you haven’t tried. Its why you like shoes to begin with, teasing yourself with subtle arousal; the feeling you get wearing a good pair of shoes is ….. (primal)

*primal* used to denote a natural feeling/craving*

Perched on high heels is a provocative stance. Its quite difficult for a woman to cower wearing high heels (have you tried?) You are compelled to take a stance, strike a pose because three inches above you need to find that (sexy) sense of balance.

The stance; Quote “"Tapers the toes, arch the instep, lift the calves, tilt the fanny and bow the back while oiling the hips and sashay the gait.... They make the foot look shorter and more precious and yet add the formidableness of extra height. An illusion of longer and more defined legs, more pronounced and curved breasts and a rounder butt. High heels emphasize all the aspects that are considered to belong to the realm of women's physically sexual attributes.”

The sexually enhanced posture definitely adds to the psyche. Makes one feel infused with a sense of empowerment (must have felt it) Its not some offshoot of masculine machine, its an electric undercurrent of feminine empowerment.


Looking at the scientific aspect to sex on high heels, a study by this woman doctor who proved successfully high-heels are, well, good. Read on.


Pelvic muscles are primarily responsibly for sexual performance and satisfaction in women, so wearing high heels forms a posture in which the pelvic muscles are relaxed and ensures optimum blood flow to the area. Walking in high heels then exercises and improves strength of the pelvic muscles and importantly the ability to contract. Resulting in an improved sexual experience to the wearer. Which is why if you've noticed the preference to keep the heels on during sex ..

Quote “"It makes sense that heels are good for abdominal and pelvic muscles, To counter the lean forward, you tighten the abdominal muscles and push the pelvis under."

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  • SolsticeAngel's Avatar
    Posted by SolsticeAngel Fri May 23, 2008 10:46pm PDT

    This was quite interesting to read. My Question is Does it do anything for men? (To see us wearing them?)

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  • John Jupiter's Avatar
    Posted by John Jupiter Sat May 24, 2008 12:48am PDT

    It does, it turns us on knowing something which turns you on .. Things which don't turn you on much like your arms so we don't care if you wearing anything sleeveless .. But we know your back turns you on or breasts .... So anything around there or the skin show we know is a possibility ;) turning us on .... :)

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  • SolsticeAngel's Avatar
    Posted by SolsticeAngel Sun May 25, 2008 10:56pm PDT

    men are such interesting creatures!! lol I love it!!! Anything else turn men on...besides the obvious???

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  • Cammi's Avatar
    Posted by Cammi Mon May 26, 2008 3:34pm PDT

    That was very interesting John! I have never quite heard it put that way before, but I do Love shoes!

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  • John Jupiter's Avatar
    Posted by John Jupiter Tue May 27, 2008 2:48am PDT

    Thanks Cammi! Do recommended this article to your friends ..

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  • John Jupiter's Avatar
    Posted by John Jupiter Tue May 27, 2008 4:32am PDT

    Well.. Ok, what else turns men on .. The tease is a killer, riles up most men. The sexy come-get-me types will get us to do a run-dive-tackle! Wearing a short skirt or backless is more advisable then say a low-neck .. Nobody wants to get caught staring at someone's boobs.. Legs and back are more safely stareable hence more room to get turned on .. ;) Subtle self-touching mistake or an oops! should really do the trick ..!

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