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  Posted by terri m Fri Jul 4, 2008 1:15pm PDT

  You Dont. It's not your business. Most likely she wont believe you. If you really want her to know what you found out. You leave clues, so she will find out on her own. Otherwise her husband probably will turn the tables on you to make you out of the bad guy..

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  Posted by Pineapple Fri Jul 4, 2008 1:26pm PDT

  Don't - But if you really want to you could play games with the husband like leave anonymous text messages saying things like "i know" etc.. why not have a little fun. Maybe he will shut down the cheating. But on the serious side it would crush the wife - she probably already knows or suspects.

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  Posted by elle Fri Jul 4, 2008 2:25pm PDT

  Agree w/above - DON'T.

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  Posted by NisyPup! Fri Jul 4, 2008 4:40pm PDT

  Man Listen, if this woman is very close to you either a sister, a close cousin, or a best friend...

  you tell them that thier man is cheating but not to do anything until they have the evidence themselves and you can help them get it because if they find out that you knew and didnt say anything it's gonna be a problem...

  but if the person isnt close to you then you just mind yours!

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  Posted by Raven Fri Jul 4, 2008 5:11pm PDT

  I agree with several people--leave clues, let the guy know, step slowly--ask her a general question--it might be the validation she has been needing. But you better make sure you have SOLID evidence, eyewiteness, incontrovertible evidence--you saw them "kissing, holding hands down the street..." Would you want to be the last to know?

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  Posted by Marcia G Fri Jul 4, 2008 6:09pm PDT

  nine out of ten times she already knows or suspects the Husband is cheating. Believe me when I say this. She knows! All you can do is be a good friend and shoulder to lean on when she brings this to you. You do not need to tell her.

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  Posted by princesstyrece Fri Jul 4, 2008 7:56pm PDT

  I agree with what everybody said

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  Posted by nicole Fri Jul 4, 2008 10:18pm PDT

  i would go up to the guy and tell him that you know his dirty bussiness, and then i would tell him that if he did not tell his suppose to be girl then you would. if she is a relative or a very good friend and she finds out that you new the whole time and you didn't tell her, she will be very upset. i would do what ever i could to get the stupied ass to tell her that he can't keep his junk in his pants, before i said told her myself.

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  Posted by cse_poojalince Fri Jul 4, 2008 11:37pm PDT

  i hv one bf he is soo sweet but some time he si showing eago..so on tht time i don't understand how to handle this problem..and eh alzz want to smoch me ...and i also enjoyed..but i want he shoud be more attract with me.but he is doing sometime engroos with his friends...n don't care abt me...so can u suggest me some tip...so i will attract him...he also love me but i don't belive him..at all..wen i chkk his e-mail there lots off..sexy photograph of women..some time i think he is not a good gye..but i love him...so can u suggest me how i can rectify he is love me or not...plzz..

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  Posted by terrios02 Sat Jul 5, 2008 5:18am PDT

  Don't tell. If she is your friend and you feel guilty for knowing when she does not, you shouldn't. I am sure somewhere inside of her she knows what is going on weather she is admitting it to herself or not. This is her business, her relationship, her life and when she does find out she is going to want to come to you for help and support and if you tell her now you might risk that. You may think that telling her is going to make you feel better somehow, but it is not your place to get in the middle of her marriage.

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