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Tuesday, November 24, 2009

How do you feel when guys check out your boobs?

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Last night at an event honoring Michael Douglas, his father Kirk was caught gazing upon Catherine Zeta-Jones' breasts. She has a lovely décolletage and bountiful cleavage, but an older man checking out his daughter-in-law's rack? Kinda creepy.

The "my-eyes-are-up-here" phenomenon is one that has probably existed since the beginning of time and will never go away. Men see boobs and they can't help but look. Whether we wear a turtleneck or a low-cut top with a push-up bra, guys like checking out our boobs.

While looking through photos my friend took at my birthday dinner, I noticed a picture of my boyfriend staring at my chest. It was hilarious! Obviously, he's my boyfriend, so I'm not embarrassed or annoyed, I just think it's funny that he was caught on camera taking a peek. On the other hand, in real world situations when I detect a stranger--particularly a much older man--distracted and looking at my boobs I am completely grossed out and feel uncomfortable.

Many women go out in revealing shirts with the exact intention of grabbing a man's attention, so why is it that in certain instances a guy taking a look makes us feel angry, annoyed or disgusted?

How do you react when you catch a guy looking at your boobs?
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  • Angel Morbid's Avatar
    Posted by Angel Morbid Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:09pm PDT

    Well, I'm not very chesty so I'm sure no guy's ever stared at my rack...not sure if that's a good thing or bad thing. But I do get checked out, not very pleasant since they're older men. WAY older men, old enough to drink all the way to old enough to be my dad...bleh, why can't I get checked out my guys my own age!?

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  • KittyKat's Avatar
    Posted by KittyKat Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:11pm PDT

    It really depends on the person and the girl.

    I mean if it was an old guy (sorry old fellows) but I would find it creepy just cuz that is me. I guess cuz for some women who arent really looking for guys and just want to have fun we dont want guys checking us out and distracting us. I'm not sure. I guess some girls can pick out the decent ones and the guys that are just looking for one thing.

    When I was single I loved all young guys(over 18) checking out by boobs.

    But for now and the rest of my life the only guy I love checking out my boobs are my boyfriend but I guess I like the attention cuz it shows that I have a hot body and that guys find me attractive.

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  • P Y's Avatar
    Posted by P Y Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:11pm PDT

    If you're going to show them off, we're going to look. Period. And, if you're not showing them off, we're going to look to try to figure out why you're not showing the puppies off. Simple, really, but women have to make everything complicated...

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  • Yankeeluver's Avatar
    Posted by Yankeeluver Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:11pm PDT

    I've had a few guys look at mine. It really just makes me laugh and smile at them, but these guys are also my age and not significantly older than me. I would feel uncomfortable and want to just slip out of the room if a man a lot older than me was looking there though.

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  • Bill's Avatar
    Posted by Bill Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:21pm PDT

    As long as you keep showing them, we'll keep looking at them.

    If you don't want them seen...cover them up.

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  • Sharla P's Avatar
    Posted by Sharla P Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:23pm PDT

    I think it is funny (I do have ample to look at) most of the time. It doesn't really matter the age. I think the real young ones and the very old ones that look do crack me up more. The times when I don't like it is when I don't like anything (like when i'm pms-ing).

    Usually, when I find a guy is staring at my boobs, I look at him until he makes eye contact so that he knows that I saw him. It's funny the sheepish look thy will give you having been caught. I just smile back.

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  • vinces's Avatar
    Posted by vinces Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:26pm PDT

    PY7 is exactly right. Women-get over it, were gonna look at your tits whether were married, single, inebriated, sober, or whatever. The only time we may not look at them hoo-hah's is if we're gay.

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  • haroldp's Avatar
    Posted by haroldp Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:27pm PDT

    hooray for boobies

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  • javier a's Avatar
    Posted by javier a Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:30pm PDT

    Thanx Sharla! I always get that "BUSTED" look from chicks cause i dont even tryo to hide it anymore. im 27 and single, you should be thankful that I am checking you out anyways!

    Oh and ladies, every man has 2 guilty pleasures. Scratching our junk and hocking loogies. Sorry but it must be done or we will go mad i tell ya!

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  • Smiley79's Avatar
    Posted by Smiley79 Fri Jun 12, 2009 12:31pm PDT

    I am a curvy woman, but I have a very nice bust, so when I dress a certain way i know I am going to get looks. as long as they are not obsence about i do not get upset.

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